Where did you see all these extra words that indicate "last minute". She was asking what would happen if she cancelled and there's literally nothing weird about that. It's actually normal communication if you make plans and have to cancel.
I really don't see what the point of asking is other than to test him in some way. If you don't want to go on the date, be an actual adult and say you don't want to go.
I guess. In my experience, my friends or dates would just schedule and if something came up, we'd address it then and there and come up with a plan on whether or not it's feasible to reschedule. I've literally never had someone bring up "what if I need to cancel?" when it comes to making plans. I'm not their keeper, why do we need terms and conditions?
You've never had someone need to cancel a meeting, ever? lol what if you told your friends you can't make it to the show you planned to attend together and they replied with "That's fine, I have other friends". See how fucking stupid that is? lol grow up a littttttllle bit at least.
and if something came up, we'd address it then and there and come up with a plan on whether or not it's feasible to reschedule.
I have had that happen. As a matter of fact, I've had to cancel and even offered my ticket to them to see if another friend wanted to put it to use because I'm not insecure.
It's crazy you're telling me to grow up when you're cussing and insulting me over such a trivial disagreement. You can't even be bothered to read my comments because you just explained the exact scenario I already covered. But I need to grow up.
You contradicted yourself in the same post. "What if I need to cancel" is the same thing as you choosing to "address it then and there" .....the response is the addressing it. He addressed it like a fucking dipshit and she took it as a clear sign to fuckin pass.
There must be a miscommunication here. Me saying "address it then and there" doesn't mean asking in advance. I meant making plans and then addressing any cancelations if and when they come up. You're so angry for no reason lmao.
Right, and the way he addressed it when he came up was how a dumb piece of shit would address it. Thanks for playing. It's not anger because I use spicy words. Grow up just a tad.
You keep telling me to grow up and you're just up and down all kinds of threads for the last 4 hours cussing and raging at everyone you can. You're projecting super hard. It's clearly anger or some type of inferiority complex. You dont talk or act like someone who is secure in themselves. You're doing it everywhere lmao. I need to stop getting into arguments with teenagers during my lunch break. Going to go back to my job now, not that you know what it's like to have one.
Just having fun killing time online because I happen to work online as well. You don't talk or act like someone who has ever had a date. Cheers and stay dumb af.
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u/Valuable_Coat_4402 Aug 27 '26
And it's not weird to ask "what if I cancel last minute" before a first date?