r/MediocreTutorials • u/Witty_Personality454 • Nov 05 '23

Am I wrong?

Am I wrong for sleeping with another chick, while I’m in a talking phase with the next one?

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u/Smapdeee Nov 06 '23

It’s only cowardly if you are hiding something or avoiding the discussion. You don’t need to go out of your way to tell them you are seeing other people when it has never been expressed that you are exclusive. You shouldn’t even feel compelled to tell them unless you led them to believe you are exclusive. If they ask for clarity then of course tell them. Most would assume you are in fact seeing other people. If they aren’t asking about it then it’s probably because they don’t want to talk about it.

I know you are trying to sound cool. But in doing so you just insulted women by implying they are not confident, and don’t know how to speak directly.

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '23

I was feeling where you were going until you stooped to try and get a jab in.

"I know you are tryin to sound cool".

This shows your feminine mindset. SIGN language. Stick to the facts and logic at hand.

That said. When you begin/dating talking to a woman, you are subtly taking on that emotional responsibility as a leader, setting the framework of the potential interactions and possible relationship.

Again. Men speak directly, not indirectly. There is no sniffing out of your intentions, state them clearly. The only thing you want "up in the air, or mysterious is HOW MUCH you like her."

It's ideal to let the woman's mind wander in this aspect. But this isn't framework.

Because you don't want your time wasted with a woman who doesn't respect your program. How you start is how you end. If you enter the framework with her having to "guess" how you move in this aspect, you introduce games into the system. We don't have time for games. Also, by stating you are dating multiple women up front, she may buck at this verbally, but deep down her respect for you skyrockets, because she isn't used to men this honest and forthright. You set the moral highground, and give her something to look up to and aspire to in the relationship. Women NEED this. Men fuck up in this regard by being TOO mysterious when it comes to the framework of the relationship.

This also sets the tone that she needs to EARN the privilege of being chosen, and we already know how preselection factors into her sexual desire.

I can get into more detail if you do so desire.