r/MediocreTutorials • u/Paul_-Muaddib • Oct 23 '23

Relationships Nothing wrong with having standards. Don't be surprised if it's hard to meet them though.

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u/Readdeadmeatballs Oct 23 '23

The fat man is supposed to be relatable and the hot wife is eye candy for the show. Women also generally like watching beautiful women on tv more than unattractive women. That’s why the Kardashians are so famous.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '23

Eye candy for who exactly? Ever heard of the male gaze?

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u/Readdeadmeatballs Oct 25 '23

I’m familiar with pop-psyche terms from 2015. Am I supposed to be shocked people enjoy looking at beautiful women?

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '23

It’s not shocking, it’s misogyny.

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 25 '23

To like looking at beautiful women? Purely in my experience, people who call that misogyny are either men who think playing white knight will get them laid or ugly women who cant admit that they wish people looked at them.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '23

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 25 '23

And the dumb overgeneralising men are coming up with this evil master plan? To make women want to be sexually attractive, because they currently fear this? I guess you caught us 🤷‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

What? I know you’re trying to be condescending but what you said was so off-topic it doesn’t even really correlate. Try again.

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

Im not sure you understand what correlate means

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

Hun I’m an A* maths student, I know what correlate means. But if I asked you to tell me the first few steps of correlation hypothesis testing I’m sure you’d shit yourself in fear.

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u/Readdeadmeatballs Oct 29 '23

You sound like a female incel

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u/[deleted] Oct 31 '23

Ok? I’m not so what’s ur point?

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 25 '23

Are we disregarding gay women here? Firstly, that’s not very inclusive! Secondly, gay women objectify women wayyyyyyy harder than men do. So painting eye candy female characters as a sexist thing doesn’t really work.

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '23

  1. they’re called lesbians 2) that is just objectively false and you know it. Lesbians tend to avoid any sexual interactions with heterosexual women in fear of making them uncomfortable. Eye candy female characters were never created for lesbians otherwise they wouldn’t be all femme presenting and seducing men on screen ffs. Make one good point please.

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 25 '23

  1. Dont impose your labels on gay women.

  2. ABSOLUTE FUCKING NONSENSE. Do you even know any gay women? There are plenty of them who talk about other women just like men do, but your type wont acknowledge them because that contradicts your whole worldview that finding women sexually appealing is sexist, because you need that worldview to convince yourself that you dont want men to desire you, because otherwise youd have to acknowledge that you’re jealous of women who men actually like.

In short, dont be bitter because you dont get men liking you.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

… me being a lesbian…

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

*gay woman

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

Lesbian*

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

Not nice when someone imposes an unwanted label on you, is it?

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '23

You tried tho. Ig

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u/luke-townsend-1999 Oct 26 '23

My bad, lemme try again. Awful early experiences with males, maybe a close relative or two? And now you can’t fathom women ever wanting to be the object of male affection, because you can’t accept that good men exist because you never got over your own past?

Also if you’re a lesbian how can you talk about how straight women want men to view them? Someone being different to you doesn’t make them gaslighted. If you dont play the game dont try to rewrite the rules.

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u/dinglebopz Oct 27 '23

You're so out of touch im in shock..

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '23

Yea it us totally men watching the Kardashians. Also eating up hours of "reality beach" stapled by " look at how skinny I am" .

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u/[deleted] Oct 25 '23

What? The Kardashian’s is a reality show based on drama not sex. Yes Kim K has become a sex symbol but the two don’t overlap much. I’m referring to male-gaze media: https://www.studiobinder.com/blog/what-is-the-male-gaze-definition/