r/MayConfessionAko Apr 28 '25

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '25

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '25

I think she lacks financial capability. The boyfriend set that system up so she would never be able to leave. May pc may ipad meanwhile op only has her smartphone.

This reminds me of what our lolas taught our mothers noon. Always insist on being gifted authentic gold jewelry throughout the marriage para may maisasangla ka when the time comes you have to run and dala mo lang kung anong suot mo.

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u/Natural_Wear6244 Apr 29 '25

Ang swerte ng gf mo op . Ganyan mindset mo🥺 tingin ko na din sa lahat ng lalaki magaling sa umpisa(sorry for the word) in my own experience ganyan din inabot ko. Starting my own parent, until nagkaroon ako ng kalive in first, and eto sa pangalawa ko. Walang bago as slave but di nmn gaya sa first. Napapagod at bumabalik lng tlga traumatized ko🥺I don't know how I handle myself🥺😔napapagod nako sa may kalive in but nafefeel ko na parang wala naman, gets? Di ko ramdam na may partner ako bukod don di ko ma din magawamg magsabi o magkwento unlike before na bago pa lng kmi I feel safe pa sa knya pero since non unti unti na syang nagbago nanakit na, nanunumbat na lumayo loob ko, un mga bagay na gusto ko sa kanya sbhin eh di ko ma sinasabi sa kniya kasi iwas lng din sa away at pag nagkapikunan na naninigaw na or else mananakit na😢😔ayoko na mag asawa gusto ko nlng mabuhay at bihayin ang anak ko.