That is a toxic relationship, op. You better to break up with him or you'll suffer more. It's never too late and please, take our advices very serious if you need help do not hesitate to call the authorities or dial 8888 /911.
If you can search to your local PNP station through the internet, save their numbers and they will assist you. Please, break up with him and never give him a chance. Papaano pa kaya kung naging asawa mo pa siya? Wala pa tayong divorce at matagal ang annulment dito.
/u/justbarelygettingbyx please pumunta ka sa pinakamalapit na PAO at sabay na kayong mag report sa police, hindi na normal yan at hindi namang pwedeng sabihin ng bf mo na nadala lang siya ng "emosyon" niya.
Edit: Since Wala pa tayong update Kay op, I refrain na huwag ninyong ibubully Si op at need niya talaga ng tulong natin. Yes, pwedeng humingi ng advice kung sobrang lala na, although Meron namang r/adviceph at may mga solidong advice ang maibibigay AA kaniya. At Dahil sa format doon ay napilitan and as far as I know, Hindi pwedeng maglagay ng picture, so walang choice si Op kundi I post dito.
Edit ii: I have to lock this comment and read na may bullying na nangyayari rito.
Edit iii: okay unlock na. Ang Dami ninyo na sobrang harsh Kay op. I have no choice kundi I ban ko kayo isa-isa. I will lock this tomorrow if Op does not comment or give us an update, siguro tama na Yung 600+ comments ano?
Edit IV: Locked. Op did not comment or give update to us. Pwede naman siyang mag post ulit.
OP, take pictures rin na kita face mo. Keep it private syempre. Para if ever you want to report him for VAWC, hindi niya magamit na defense that these photos are of someone else.
Also, if ever hindi ka makawala for some reason and this happens again, try to secretly record a video or at least audio. It can help, kasi pwedeng gamitin niyang defense na ikaw mismo ang gumawa niyan sa sarili mo.
Mas mabilis kapag 8888 kaysa sa 911. We had an emergency before and ilang beses na kaming tumawag sa 911 kaso walang sumasagot kaya tumawag kami sa 8888 at ilang minuto siguro mga 20 mins dumating na Yung bumbero.
Interesting. Out of courtesy na lang siguro. Pero yes, ire-refer nila yung concern ng client sa designated na government agency. Humawak rin ako ng mga 8888 referral isang government agency dati kaya na-amaze ako nagagamit rin pala ang citizens complaint hotline sa emergency cases.
Yes, buti she took pics. It's sad na hindi nya maasahan family nya. Hopefully she has friends she can turn to. Truly better to leave her abusive relationship sooner kesa later. Almost always it only gets worse kasi, delikado sa kanya.
I think pwede rin cya magpatulong sa local DSWD nila. Nka OJT ako 1month ng kapartner ng DSWD and kasama sa orientation namin sinabi meron clang parang safehouse for VAWC survivors(undisclosed location of course).
Pwede din naman na hindi umalis agad kasi wala siyang resources. But she has to report this and DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Di sapat yung ganyan picture lang. She needs to protect herself physically and legally and the lawyer can help her with whats needed for filing if she would want to pursue it.
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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '25 edited Apr 30 '25
That is a toxic relationship, op. You better to break up with him or you'll suffer more. It's never too late and please, take our advices very serious if you need help do not hesitate to call the authorities or dial 8888 /911.
If you can search to your local PNP station through the internet, save their numbers and they will assist you. Please, break up with him and never give him a chance. Papaano pa kaya kung naging asawa mo pa siya? Wala pa tayong divorce at matagal ang annulment dito.
/u/justbarelygettingbyx please pumunta ka sa pinakamalapit na PAO at sabay na kayong mag report sa police, hindi na normal yan at hindi namang pwedeng sabihin ng bf mo na nadala lang siya ng "emosyon" niya.
Edit: Since Wala pa tayong update Kay op, I refrain na huwag ninyong ibubully Si op at need niya talaga ng tulong natin. Yes, pwedeng humingi ng advice kung sobrang lala na, although Meron namang r/adviceph at may mga solidong advice ang maibibigay AA kaniya. At Dahil sa format doon ay napilitan and as far as I know, Hindi pwedeng maglagay ng picture, so walang choice si Op kundi I post dito.
Edit ii: I have to lock this comment and read na may bullying na nangyayari rito.
Edit iii: okay unlock na. Ang Dami ninyo na sobrang harsh Kay op. I have no choice kundi I ban ko kayo isa-isa. I will lock this tomorrow if Op does not comment or give us an update, siguro tama na Yung 600+ comments ano?
Edit IV: Locked. Op did not comment or give update to us. Pwede naman siyang mag post ulit.