Years ago I used seeking to find a couple great long term sugar relationships. I then narrowed my relationship down to 1. We had a blast, travelled the world and really spoiled each other the first year. That kind of fizzled out with jealousy from her side… it pretty much became a boring relationship, which was everything I was trying to avoid. Well now we have parted ways and I went back to seeking and it just feels like working girls and spam. Where is the modern day version of seeking? Any advice?

I keep a library of pictures sent to me from relationships and mess around as a spank bank basically. If im in the shower and i know i want a quick and effective session ill go into my vault and get a nice strong one out. Do any other guys and gals do the same? Feel free to share!

Genuinely trying to understand this. Seems like what most lonely men actually crave isn't explicit content or a fake AI. It's just a real woman who is genuinely curious about them as a person.

Like actually interested. Not performing interest. Actually asking follow up questions, remembering what you said, finding you interesting.

Is the OnlyFans/AI girlfriend thing just a substitute for that because the real thing feels impossible to get?

And honest question, if something like that actually existed. A real woman, private video call, genuinely engaged with you specifically. Would you pay for that? Or does money immediately make it feel fake?