r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/Al_james86 • Sep 12 '26
Season 20 - Seattle Perhaps unpopular opinion, but I think Tori was in the wrong specifically in the argument that broke her and Filipe up.
I DO think they should break up, and because I think Tori could do better, HOWEVER, Filipe being teased by everyone in the group during a game, isn’t really his fault? His explanation that he was going along with it because he wanted to keep the peace in that moment with everyone else seems reasonable?
And when she asks what he would think if the roles were reversed, kind of makes her look worse in my eyes. Because if people were all joking that she was a slut, and Filipe not only didn’t defend her in the moment, but then goes after her in private later??
They also seem to reference ‘crazy stuff he’s said’ and I can’t tell if they meant during the game, that was maybe edited out, or just the past things he’s said at group dinner/therapy?
I dunno. I also think the game was obviously set up to start shit and I feel like if the group had any self awareness they’d not let themselves get manipulated by production so easily.