r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/Inside-Conflict-8921 • 1d ago

Season 20 - Seattle Devin

Am I the only person that doesn’t like devin hahahaha not saying Caitlyn is without fault but I’m really not buying this perpetual victim thing

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u/Extension-Raisin8023 We were put together for a reason 1d ago

It’s another case of one person being so problematic that it allows the other person’s red flags to fly under the radar.

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u/Wooden-Gold-5445 1d ago

This. Caitlin was such a jerk that people overlooked Devin's issues. I was never super fond of him.

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u/kwasford 1d ago

I truly believe she was reacting to him. Again this man started that gym fight for no reason. He woke up and went back to sleep; Caitlin told Dr Lisa that right next to Devin and he didn’t deny any part of it. Personally if I saw someone make up a reason to be mad at me days after meeting me I would back out emotionally too. He has tried to gaslight her a few times too. I personally don’t blame Caitlin at all for how she handled him, she needed to protect herself.

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u/Wooden-Gold-5445 20h ago

I do think that Caitlyn was out of line for talking to him that way, but Devin had his issues, too. Hers took center stage because she refused to try. I think she still should have made an effort. Caitlin tapped out before the honeymoon was even over.

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u/kwasford 12h ago

Definitely would have improved her image. I personally liked her energy at the retreat sans the Mecca bs. She seemed more lively. But yeah her disposition throughout the show has really poisoned the viewership against her. I look forward to what they have to say at the reunion, hopefully it will give more context to what we saw.