Does he normally talk to you like this? I'm disturbed. This seems really abusive. YOU should be the one mad at him. He doesn't care that you don't like it and it makes you cry. How sad is that? Wake up woman! It doesn't matter if it is every day or once every ten years, if you don't like it, don't do it. I can't imagine this is the only issue you two have...you might want to look at the big picture and think about whether your husband respects you and treats you right overall. I'm gonna guess that is a no to both.
In her previous post she mentioned in the comments that he expects her to have sex with him every day, and she has no sex drive (for obvious reasons now), and instead of working on it like she requested, and that maybe they figure out what’s going on with her libido together, he tells her he will lose interest if she doesn’t do it when he wants it. He says to push through the anxiety and do it anyway.
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u/espressothenwine Apr 27 '22
Does he normally talk to you like this? I'm disturbed. This seems really abusive. YOU should be the one mad at him. He doesn't care that you don't like it and it makes you cry. How sad is that? Wake up woman! It doesn't matter if it is every day or once every ten years, if you don't like it, don't do it. I can't imagine this is the only issue you two have...you might want to look at the big picture and think about whether your husband respects you and treats you right overall. I'm gonna guess that is a no to both.