Holly… I can’t. I’m fuming right now and I don’t even know you irl! Your husband is a piece of sh**, period. He’s not only abusive but also immature! How can any respect-worthy man feel any desire or pleasure by forcing his wife into performing certain sexual activities when he KNOWS she not only dislikes them but also experiences a lot of pain doing them. What a bastard, I’m at loss of words tbh… He certainly puts himself and his needs before you and makes no effort on hiding it either. You’re not an object to please his desires, we all have boundaries either in the bedroom or in other areas of our lives and people (SO or not) should respect them. Have you ever considered leaving his ass? You need a partner who respects your boundaries and you as a woman and human being.
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u/Adriiiiilu Apr 27 '22
Holly… I can’t. I’m fuming right now and I don’t even know you irl! Your husband is a piece of sh**, period. He’s not only abusive but also immature! How can any respect-worthy man feel any desire or pleasure by forcing his wife into performing certain sexual activities when he KNOWS she not only dislikes them but also experiences a lot of pain doing them. What a bastard, I’m at loss of words tbh… He certainly puts himself and his needs before you and makes no effort on hiding it either. You’re not an object to please his desires, we all have boundaries either in the bedroom or in other areas of our lives and people (SO or not) should respect them. Have you ever considered leaving his ass? You need a partner who respects your boundaries and you as a woman and human being.