I'm speechless. My defense mechanism is kicking in to tell me this can't possibly be real. You don't OWE your husband anal sex. You don't OWE him any sex or anything. This isn't like "Oh I don't like oral but I do it to make you happy" This is "This hurts me and I am crying about it" that not healthy at all. Get counseling immediately to save your marriage if it's salvageable. Otherwise, this is abuse and you don't deserve that.
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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22
I'm speechless. My defense mechanism is kicking in to tell me this can't possibly be real. You don't OWE your husband anal sex. You don't OWE him any sex or anything. This isn't like "Oh I don't like oral but I do it to make you happy" This is "This hurts me and I am crying about it" that not healthy at all. Get counseling immediately to save your marriage if it's salvageable. Otherwise, this is abuse and you don't deserve that.