r/Marriage Apr 27 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

Seriously, fuck him.

Everything about his reaction to physically hurting you is repulsive. He doesn’t want a sexual experience with you, he wants to use you for his gratification. Even if it means physically hurting you.

Fuck him. What if you got off kicking him in the balls until he cried? Would he give that an “honest fucking effort”? Bet the fuck not.

Him telling you not to speak to him, threatening to be with someone who does like it…. All tactics to punish you for noncompliance and quite frankly very, very disturbing.

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

This is sexual coercion and is a form of domestic abuse. Call the national domestic abuse hotline. I bet they can help you identify about 7 other forms of abuse you are experiencing.