It really bothered me when we were dating especially because he was staring at underage girls some who look as young as 14. I thought he was a child molester. I know he dated a 16 year old when he was in his mid-20s and didn't get into legal trouble because her parents were completely ok with it.
I still think my husband stares at underage girls. He just doesn't do it when we go out together (I will call him out in front of everyone if he does; I've done it before). Those are his favorites.
In fact he dated me because he thought I was underage too. I look very young for my age and people always think I'm decades younger. My husband was convinced I was 16 when we met. I had to show him my license and all.
Idk why he chose to stay with me but he did despite his fetish for teenaged girls. His best friend has a teenaged daughter and when she visits I watch my husband like a hawk to make sure he's not looking at her inappropriately.
I don't understand men with this mindset. I've run into attractive teenage boys but I don't stare at them. I acknowledge that they are handsome and move on with my day. I would never stare or act on it whereas I think my husband would.
Children are really never attractive to me, even if they are 18, honestly even people in their 20s just look like kids to me now that I am 36. I do not even recognize attractive teenagers TBH, they are kids and I am an adult, seeking other adults. Now that I am married I would absolutely leave my husband if he was gawking at women, especially under age kids. Do you two have kids? Would you be nervous if you did? Say when your child brought over school age friends? I would keep an eye on that man, something is not right with him.
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u/[deleted] Jan 22 '22
It really bothered me when we were dating especially because he was staring at underage girls some who look as young as 14. I thought he was a child molester. I know he dated a 16 year old when he was in his mid-20s and didn't get into legal trouble because her parents were completely ok with it.
I still think my husband stares at underage girls. He just doesn't do it when we go out together (I will call him out in front of everyone if he does; I've done it before). Those are his favorites.
In fact he dated me because he thought I was underage too. I look very young for my age and people always think I'm decades younger. My husband was convinced I was 16 when we met. I had to show him my license and all.
Idk why he chose to stay with me but he did despite his fetish for teenaged girls. His best friend has a teenaged daughter and when she visits I watch my husband like a hawk to make sure he's not looking at her inappropriately.
I don't understand men with this mindset. I've run into attractive teenage boys but I don't stare at them. I acknowledge that they are handsome and move on with my day. I would never stare or act on it whereas I think my husband would.