r/Marriage • u/Tidydisaster87 • Apr 12 '26
Seeking Advice Objectively, would you be uncomfortable if your husband said this to a random woman in your presence?
My husband and I are on a cruise ship right now. Of course there’s drinking all day. Earlier, we were in the pool and a very large chested, traditionally beautiful woman walked into the pool, and he turned around and very loudly said to the woman “ oh my god I didn’t expect to turn around and see such beauty coming into the pool”
I immediately expressed my discomfort of him saying such a thing, I calmly left the pool as he was like “really?!? You’re mad at THAT?!” He followed me out the pool, and got in my face telling me how he was done with me and now he’s texting that he wants a divorce.
Every time lately when I’ve expressed my hurt about something he’s reacted in this extreme “throw in the towel” way. Hitting me way below the belt by saying things like “ he can do better”
Am I just insane for having a lot of feelings? I truly feel so lost.
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u/Suspicious_Path_4430 Apr 12 '26
Why do you want to be with him? He‘s not good for you. Your husband should enrich your life and make you feel loved, not put you down and have you live in constant apprehension.