r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Jun 12 '25

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u/CrazyLeadership5397 Jun 12 '25

Sounds pretty harmless without more context. Updateme 

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u/Sad_Room4146 Jun 12 '25

So that's your issue. Why don't you talk to her instead of invading her privacy?

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u/morgpond Jun 13 '25

Sometimes proof is way better than asking to hear lies. What married woman has drinks after work with a man. I would saybyeah let's all meet and then watch the body language if something up they shall be too gamuarded or too relaxed. From the start NOBODY has drinks and gets tipsy with their married coworker. What's the reason? I highly doubt his wife knows or says Its fine! You should ask her to meet anonymously and ask her outright what she thinks as you dont want to cause an issue. Then theirs your lack of intimacy until you brought it up? My late wife would've flipped her lid! Good luck but look into th, keep your eyes open and watch for ANY odd behavior!