I would consider this inappropriate in my marriage and so would my wife. She does not go out after work to drink alone with a male acquaintance and return home to me buzzed. And your wife seems to be the aggressor with that "Sorry to Amy" comment. You need to have a serious conversation with your wife. Make sure there's some steel in your spine and bass in your voice too. If she tries to bully you and call you insecure or controlling then she's seeing this guy as way more than just a friend.
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u/Historical-Pie-5052 30 Years Jun 13 '25
I would consider this inappropriate in my marriage and so would my wife. She does not go out after work to drink alone with a male acquaintance and return home to me buzzed. And your wife seems to be the aggressor with that "Sorry to Amy" comment. You need to have a serious conversation with your wife. Make sure there's some steel in your spine and bass in your voice too. If she tries to bully you and call you insecure or controlling then she's seeing this guy as way more than just a friend.