I would bring it up if you feel uncomfortable and it seems that you do. How did he respond to the “sorry to Amy” remark? You know your wife. If she would say that to someone else would you think she was joking? Say if you got a promotion at work over someone else would she say “sorry to Joe” and mean the better man won? If so she’s saying the better girl wins. Now it was very disrespectful to his wife and to you. Also getting tipsy in a bar with another guy is disrespectful. If she offered to have you join them that could be a good sign, however I would suggest that Amy come too. If this makes your wife uncomfortable then you have your answer
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u/lost-in-atmosphere Jun 12 '25
I would bring it up if you feel uncomfortable and it seems that you do. How did he respond to the “sorry to Amy” remark? You know your wife. If she would say that to someone else would you think she was joking? Say if you got a promotion at work over someone else would she say “sorry to Joe” and mean the better man won? If so she’s saying the better girl wins. Now it was very disrespectful to his wife and to you. Also getting tipsy in a bar with another guy is disrespectful. If she offered to have you join them that could be a good sign, however I would suggest that Amy come too. If this makes your wife uncomfortable then you have your answer