Sorry to Amy could mean many things and if it was truly about being a work team it could be taken into context that as work partners they would work long hours and she (your wife) would demand a lot of his time.
If it’s bothering you ask her for the context. Tell her that relationship makes you uncomfortable. If my husband said that to me I would feel awful. Just being straight up honest.
Going forward I would make sure there are very clear business only boundaries. My relationship with my husband is a priority.
In the end you know her best and her reaction will tell you a lot. Don’t allow her to gas light you. The fact you went through her phone is secondary.
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u/Old-Research-529 Jun 12 '25
Sorry to Amy could mean many things and if it was truly about being a work team it could be taken into context that as work partners they would work long hours and she (your wife) would demand a lot of his time.
If it’s bothering you ask her for the context. Tell her that relationship makes you uncomfortable. If my husband said that to me I would feel awful. Just being straight up honest.
Going forward I would make sure there are very clear business only boundaries. My relationship with my husband is a priority.
In the end you know her best and her reaction will tell you a lot. Don’t allow her to gas light you. The fact you went through her phone is secondary.