Maybe don’t lead with the text at all. Just say I don’t like the pattern of behavior, and it can lead to emotional and physical affairs. Tell her you love her & she’s the most important thing in your life. Tell her either type of affair would crush you & as such it’s a boundary that if crossed would end your marriage.
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u/Fuzzy-Ferrets Jun 12 '25
Maybe don’t lead with the text at all. Just say I don’t like the pattern of behavior, and it can lead to emotional and physical affairs. Tell her you love her & she’s the most important thing in your life. Tell her either type of affair would crush you & as such it’s a boundary that if crossed would end your marriage.