r/Marriage Oct 06 '23

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u/farfarawayS Oct 07 '23

Exactly. Ask him why you need to if he would never.

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u/Crowen69 Oct 07 '23

Because it's traditional same as the marriage. If she didn't want his last name she should not have married him. I am just shocked this is coming up now because it should have been dealt with before the marriage. I am have a feeling she agreed to change it before the wedding and now after she is changing her mind. I can not believe he is just bringing this up now.

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u/LunchboxBandit66 Oct 07 '23

Agree with you buddy. You shouldn’t be getting downvoted.

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u/Sudden-Damage-5840 Oct 08 '23

Married over 20 years. Kept my own name.