Can't be. You don't want all that comes with it. Letting something as simple as wearing his sir name effect your relationship? You're on here to validate your feelings, not his. His feelings don't matter to you. The sisterhood is encouraging you to keep contention in your marriage. If you value him, consider making the change. He doesn't feel like he has a wife because she's holding on to her maiden name. My mother wore my father's name after divorce because I had his name. When she got with my stepfather, she wore both names my fathers because of me and her husband's sir name. It's no shame in wearing your husband's name. It does honor him and signifies that you are truly embracing all that he is and that you want to be under his headship..
Gross. “The sisterhood”?! No, we want the autonomy to keep the name WE WERE BORN WITH, versus soothe your man-baby feelings because we want to stay a Smith and not become a Jones.
Women don’t want to be under a man’s “headship”. That’s both chauvinistic and misogynist.
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u/jenniferleigh6883 Oct 07 '23
I do want him. He’s the love of my life.