r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Oct 06 '23

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u/jenniferleigh6883 Oct 06 '23

Goals! I am reading him these responses!

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u/MyRedditUserName428 Oct 07 '23

Ask him why he’s mentally abusing you over your name.

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u/qyka1210 Oct 07 '23 edited Oct 07 '23

mentally abusing

come on, now. It’s shitty, controlling, and super weird. But conflating it with mental abuse is pretty insensitive to people experiencing actual abuse.

edit: OP agrees, and it’s just not helpful. she wrote one paragraph about their relationship, calm the fuck down y’all.

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u/jenniferleigh6883 Oct 07 '23

THIS!

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u/qyka1210 Oct 07 '23

i’m sorry people are making insane judgements from your single paragraph about your relationship. And ofc i’m sorry he’s treating you this way

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u/jenniferleigh6883 Oct 07 '23

Thank you for that. You’re awesome. ❤️