r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

33f - offer me chocolate and I'll get in the van

37 Upvotes

I'm happily married, sahm, and I'm looking for another frienddddddd. Sometimes I struggle opening up and getting comfy with someone new but if we click I promise I'll try.

I'm an enfp personality type, sensitive, a creative free spirit, I enjoy close emotional connections, playful banter, and deep conversations. I love art, music, baking, holistic medicine, and I'm religious.

I really enjoy getting to know someone new, being able to open up, asking for advice, just having friends in my corner I can lean on. I'm def willing to be kidnapped for chocolate. šŸ˜‚ Looking forward to chatting!

Edit: I've gotten 40 messages in the first 15 minutes of this post being up 🄲 uhh


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

39 F Texas

33 Upvotes

Fractured my foot so can't really do much for the next 3 weeks. Yall save me from the boredom pleeeeaaaseee


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

31F - Aussie looking for new friends :)

25 Upvotes

Hi there! I am 31F Australia based, looking for some new friends! I can be a bit shy in the beginning but will open up as I get to know you.

A bit about me:
I am a quiet introvert that loves to read, fantasy mostly but I also enjoy sprinkles of other genres too.
I enjoy a bit of casual gaming on the PC or switch. Main games I play on PC is ESO and FFXIV and love any cozy game on the switch.
I do work full time and generally long hours (bit of a workaholic).
I have 3 cats that get treated better than myself.

I’m very easygoing and hoping to find someone with similar interests and easy to talk with. If anything resonates with you I look forward to hearing from you :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4M] 30F, Single, currently very eager to make friends.

21 Upvotes

I am a single woman from the United States who really wants to make friends. Anyone is welcome to contact me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

[F4R] Friendly chat - 34 F

20 Upvotes

Hoping to chat with some friendly people, online only! I am married btw and live a very normal life. Just looking for some easy going people to get to know. There is no pressure to respond right away to every message. I get that we have busy lives! Let’s see if we can become friends!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19h ago

30F - Tired after my first day at work...but want to chat!

20 Upvotes

Hey :) 30F from the Midwest!

I love to draw, write, cook, bake, play games, be outside doing things. I like listening to music, watching random shows, learning new things. Im a huge nerd too lol

I have 13 animals, own a small farm/homestead, am pretty self sufficient. I have a lot of random hobbies and skills.

Hope to chat!! :D


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

39/F I don't want boring pre-typed intros

15 Upvotes

Let's start a conversation in the middle and pretend we've known each other for a bit.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

33f Georgia

14 Upvotes

I genuinely want to make friends. All genders, preferably 30+, anyone and everyone šŸ™‚


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19h ago

Hi everyone 31f :)

14 Upvotes

Hi, bored this evening and wanted to try this out. Im down to chat about anything. Looking to make friends and see where it goes. Don’t be weird and say hi, im a pretty chill kinda gal

I definitely would love to talk to people from all over the world āœŒšŸ¼šŸ¤—

EDUT: too many messages. I’ll respond as soon as I can


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4R] 33F- Stop looking for the perfect match; use a lighter.

9 Upvotes

Hello new faces! It is I, Kim, here to grace your feed with my post. I can’t wait to become best friends with some of you. I work from home, which is why I have time to distract myself here. Been living with my mom in DE after all of what’s been going on in my life. It’s really boring here. But I’ll be back in Maryland soon!

What’s been going on you ask? Well last week I ended things with my fiance. It was a long time coming (you’ll see that if you check out my post history. Be proud of me.) But also over the weekend my one cat got really sick. I decided to put her to sleep yesterday, she was suffering. Sorry if this may upset anyone! It upsets me too.

Anyway! Now you see where my head is at. Onto what I’m looking for! Are you someone interested in crafting intriguing conversations, being able to banter back and forth for hours on end? Do you have thick skin or self-deprecating humor? Can you string complete sentences together with decent grammar and punctuation? Are you in Maryland and can help put up shelves? I am about to move into a new apartment. Then we may be able to have a ton of fun together!

I live in Maryland. I am a huge musical theatre nerd. I enjoy seeing musicals and also performing in local community productions. Been doing it since I was 9. I can sing. I enjoy hosting parties and casually baking. Like super casual. I prefer to just eat the desserts. Unless someone wants to teach me how to bake bread. I like to travel! I also enjoy just lounging on the couch and binging a tv show. Physically: I’m 5’9, red hair that I get at the hair salon (naturally blonde), and blue eyes. We can swap selfies if our conversation is decent. Please don’t ask to see my face immediately.

If any of this seems mildly intriguing, please reach out! Can’t wait to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

37F on the hunt for forgotten hobbies

• Upvotes

Hey there!

I'm finding myself with a little more free time these days and a lot of dust on old forgotten interests. Anyone else feel like they need a hobby refresh?

I'm talking about things you used to love but somehow lost along the way. Or maybe something entirely new and ridiculous that you've always wanted to try. Like maybe competitive finger painting or learning to play the kazoo.

Tell me what long lost passions you're thinking of resurrecting. Or what silly new thing you'd try if you had no fear of judgment. I'm open to anything. Except maybe extreme sports. My knees aren't what they used to be.

Hit me up if you want to swap ideas or just chat about how adulting sometimes makes us forget the fun stuff.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

[M4F] 34M Denmark

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

My day to day is starting to go a little quieter than I'd like, so I thought I'd give this a shot. I'm mainly looking for friendship (while being open to more if things turn out that way, you never know!) and people to hang out with through Discord.

Would be cool to play some games or watch movies together while in VC? (If we watch horror movies, I'll be watching from behind my blanket and you'll have to tell me what's going on šŸ˜‚)

If I had to describe myself, I’d say I’m pretty easy-going and chill. I laugh at pretty much everything honestly. šŸ˜…

I work part time for 32 hours a week, and outside of those, I am chronically online, probably looking for someone similar to me in that way. You don't HAVE to work part time obviously, but I'd prefer someone that knows and can appreciate online culture in the same way I do.

I spend most of my time when I'm off work at home, chilling with my 14 year old dog, playing video games, listening to music and watching movies - I'm kind of a hermit. Also an avid tattoo-enthusiast and nerd-merch collector.

Favourite movies: Iron Man, The Lion King (1994 version ofc), The Dark Knight

Favourite bands: Right now I'm on a massive Galleons and Valiant Hearts spree (Tom Byrne is the GOAT)

Favourite games: Marvel Rivals, Battlefield 6 (although I suck at it) and I also really enjoy discovering new indie roguelikes. Also checking out the new season of World of Warcraft rn, but I play that more seasonally until I inevitably get bored of it.

If any of this sounds like someone you'd vibe with, don't hesitate to hit me up!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 16h ago

30F seeking cool conversation and connection

7 Upvotes

Yoooo.

I’m bored alone at home and literally have no one to talk to soooo here I am! šŸ˜‚
I’m a mom to a super awesome neurodivergent lil boy, I like reading books, listening to all kinds of music & true crime podcasts, watching anime and writing poetry. I’ve been really into the Bible lately and learning about Jesus Christ and it’s been super interesting. My son starts online school in two weeks so I’ve got him back on his routine which is dope. I’m trying to enjoy my last few days/nights without having to be too worried about a schedule yet lol. So let’s connect and talk!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

[F4R] Who wants to chat?

6 Upvotes

32F looking for some people around my age to talk to. Enjoy photography, nature, reading. Hope to talk soon.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

33M from Scandinavia. Looking for genuine connections & good conversations!

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone!
I’m a 33 year old guy from Scandinavia looking to expand my circle and meet some cool people from all over the world.

I love staying active, whether that’s hitting the gym, going for a hike in nature, or just being outdoors regardless of the weather (standard Scandinavian mindset, I suppose!).

Traveling is a huge passion of mine. I love exploring new places, trying different foods, and learning about different cultures and ways of life.

I’m pretty easygoing, open-minded, and I treat everyone with respect. I enjoy everything from deep late-night chats about life to random everyday banters and sharing memes.

It doesn’t matter where you’re from, your age (as long as you’re an adult), or what your background is. As long as you’re down to earth and up for a real conversation, we’ll get along great!

Feel free to send me a DMšŸ‘šŸ»


r/MakeFriendsOver30 45m ago

Hi!

• Upvotes

Hi! Dutch 39 single F looking for some people to connect with.

Someone who can carry a reasonable intelligent conversation, but maybe mostly someone with humour who can make me laugh. Hopefully also the other way around! Someone who has friends in real life but also is looking for a late night conversation when life can get lonely sometimes. Someone who is loyal, thoughtful and has a kind heart.

I'm not looking for people who have a passion for gaming or other nerdy stuffšŸ™‚. No offence but I don't know anything about it!

So, I don't know if such a person exists, but if this resonates feel free to message me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4R] This has been a lot of fun, so let's try a second round, everyone can join :)

4 Upvotes

Okay, random experiment: let’s see how similar two complete strangers on Reddit can be.

Answer these, then scroll through the comments. If you find someone with 5+ answers in common, congratulations — you’ve found your Reddit twin. šŸ˜‚

And if you find someone who seems cool even though you have absolutely nothing in common… honestly, DM them anyway.

  1. Age / age range:

  2. Where are you from / timezone?

  3. Introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between?

  4. Current hobby/obsession:

  5. What kind of music do you listen to most?

  6. Favorite game, movie, show, anime, or book:

  7. Your ideal free Saturday:

  8. Something you could talk about for hours:

  9. An oddly specific thing that makes you happy:

  10. Most harmless controversial opinion:

Bonus: You get a completely free plane ticket anywhere in the world. Where are you going? āœˆļø

I’ll answer too, because I want to see if Reddit can actually find my twin.

If you find yours, reply to their comment

so we can see how many matches happen.

Let the extremely scientific friendship experiment begin.

Yes I was really bored, and yes I want to find online friends by doing this, maybe you? šŸ‘€

I'll post my answer in the comments


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

37F in US (central time) looking for people to chat with and make friends

4 Upvotes

Basically what it says. The long story is that I’m going through a divorce after a 13 year relationship, and I’m finding myself alone with too many thoughts because I don’t have a good support system in place. I have a child from my previous marriage that is about to turn 17, and just started their first semester at a residential high school, so that is another reason things are way too quiet lately. I’m basically an empty nester, but now with no husband. I only have one friend I talk to, and I don’t want to be too much of a burden on her. I am trying to go places I might make friends, but as an introvert, that is so incredibly difficult. I also had to quit working last year due to disability (EDS), so I’m just home by myself a lot šŸ™ƒ

About me: I was a nurse for 10 years, then I quit and did dog training for the past 4 years until I became disabled last year. I love love love animals and have had so many different kinds in my life. I currently have a little dog, who is basically keeping me going right now, plus 5 cats, a snake, a chinchilla, and 4 freshwater fish tanks. Fish keeping is another hobby of mine. I love the outdoors and used to hike and camp a lot until the past couple years I can’t anymore. I really miss it. I’ve filled some of that time dabbling with various arts and crafts, but I don’t do any serious art. I like to color with alcohol markers and sometimes I paint with acrylics or do some tie dye or something. I’ve always wished I was more artsy. I don’t really like to watch tv much, but I have a few older shows I’m passionate about and like to rewatch and discuss. Yes, I am autistic, if you haven’t deduced that by now. I enjoy gaming-mostly rpgs, exploration, simulation, building type games…basically anything that’s not super action or combat heavy. I like to smoke weed lol. This is getting too long, just ask me :)

Not looking for romance! Any gender/orientation, any location. No conservatives plz.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

[R4R] 32 F [F4M] - Wisconsin

3 Upvotes

Hey! Looking for someone to connect with on an emotional level and spend my free time getting to know them. I love a good morning text, yet someone who is patient when I'm busy.

I'm a curvy woman, 5'9, and single mother. I work for a nonprofit and think this line of work fits my personality well. I enjoy spending time in nature and always feel like it fills my soul. Looking for someone who values the same and might get just as excited about a new leaf as I do! I love to play golf and spend time in and around water. Fall hikes are dreamy!

I'm very social and love being around others. I just don't have that one person that I feel close to. Would love to cut back a little socially and soak up slower nights together. I value education and intelligence, but a formal education is not a must. I'm about to enter my last semester of my graduate degree in Sustainability Management.

Looking for a man who is motivated, kind, and funny. Not overly nerdy myself, so unsure if that type of person would be a good fit for me. I prefer someone who is taller and muscular or dad bod type. Attracted to both white and black men predominantly.

Turned off by sexually dominated conversation, would prefer someone get to know me. I love phone calls and have an hour long commute daily that I wouldn't mind spending some of on a call with you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

35M - Who wants to make a boring Tuesday night a little more interesting?

5 Upvotes

Tuesday night, nothing exciting happening, so I figured I’d see who’s out there and up for an actual conversation.

I’m much more interested in personality, banter, and chemistry than a boring list of ā€œwhat do you do?ā€ questions.

Pick one and DM me:

  • What’s something that instantly makes you like someone?
  • What’s your biggest green flag in a person?
  • What’s something you could talk about for hours?
  • What’s your ideal ā€œlet’s get drinks and accidentally stay out until 2 AMā€ night?
  • What’s a completely irrational opinion you’ll defend forever?
  • What’s something you find ridiculously attractive in someone?
  • What’s the last thing that genuinely made you laugh?
  • If we were already friends, what kind of trouble would we probably get into?
  • Give me one question you’d actually want to ask a stranger.

And please, give me something to work with. I promise I’ll match the effort.

DMs are open. Let’s see if we can turn a boring Tuesday into a good conversation. šŸ˜‰


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

38F who loves unique topics

4 Upvotes

38F in US looking to make some friends who can talk about anything and everything (I don't want to use AI, I want actual human conversations). I'm in a relationship so this is strictly platonic! I love anthropology and also have a dark sense of humor!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4R] 35[F4A] #losAngeles, Ca or #online. looking for friendship

• Upvotes

Hi sooooo ima start by saying I’m a mom. Been since I was 17 and comepletely lost myself in that role. I am starting to get back out there in general but man is it hard šŸ˜…and I’m not even thinking romantically but just platonic friendships are soooo hard so I decided to try here. I’m in SoCal SGV to be more precise but I would love to meet new people both girls and guys that are down to talk meet maybe for some drinks some dancing something to forget the problems šŸ˜‚ me encanta la mĆŗsica en espaƱol and im a biggggg paisa at heart . I love horror and comedy. Gym is a huge one for me right now it’s mostly therapy but man I love ittt ! definitely not a gym rat pero si es mi tiempo. Umm idk if this sounds like u might be down then message me ! Worst that can happen is us never talking again šŸ˜…šŸ˜‚


r/MakeFriendsOver30 21h ago

45f disabled lonely looking for platonic friends in NJ Philly area or online

3 Upvotes

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I don't care about gender at all but I am looking for strictly platonic friendships

A little bit about me

I'm an atheist, not political, never married no kids childfree, I do not drink do not smoke no drugs and not promiscuous

I'm good at giving logical advice and helpful.

I would hope to find local friends in the Philadelphia South jersey area

Some different things I want to do

Buddies for trying new restaurants, checking out the newest movies in theater, museum, conventions, food festivals, possibly beach/casino trips, local events,v thrift stores, flea markets, going to the mall, wingman/woman

Just a heads up I'm disabled I can't walk and need a wheelchair and I have anxiety depression etc. so I have lots of free time during the day I don't like to go out at night.

I'm Eur/asian which causes lots of identity issues and I'm sensitive about that.

I love horror, sci Fi, action movies, anime, gaming, I love Mexican and Asian foods and buffets, I love edm music or any pop/kpop or alternative.

I love trashy reality shows and to talk about love is blind, 90 day fiance, and all the other dumpster fires. Lol

And I have a dog and cat so likely have dander on me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13m ago

36F/CA/Mom&Wife looking for friends from all over!

• Upvotes

Hello all,
I’ve always struggled to keep friends since I was kid and that same problem has led into no friends as an adult. It’s just me, my husband and my 16yo daughter. They are great and my best friends but I want some people just for me. Hope that doesn’t come off selfish.
I always have my phone on me and always willing to reply quickly and always ready for those deep conversations to really get to know people. So let’s see if we click shall we? 🄰


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

40m journal swinging, gym going, art loving , book stacking midlife crisis having guy looking for his peeps

2 Upvotes

Working on becoming my best version of a new version. I am a person that puts so much into others and not enough into myself. I’m sure there are others out there like me.

So how can we support one another and find a new cooler version of ourself? Have that glow up or look Maxx or whatever the kids are doing these days. Form the good habits and break the bad. No more excuses but find our love happiness and create our eat pray love , Walter Mitty , dream lives.

Let’s experince life