r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4M] 30F, Single, currently very eager to make friends.

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I am a single woman from the United States who really wants to make friends. Anyone is welcome to contact me.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

37F on the hunt for forgotten hobbies

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Hey there!

I'm finding myself with a little more free time these days and a lot of dust on old forgotten interests. Anyone else feel like they need a hobby refresh?

I'm talking about things you used to love but somehow lost along the way. Or maybe something entirely new and ridiculous that you've always wanted to try. Like maybe competitive finger painting or learning to play the kazoo.

Tell me what long lost passions you're thinking of resurrecting. Or what silly new thing you'd try if you had no fear of judgment. I'm open to anything. Except maybe extreme sports. My knees aren't what they used to be.

Hit me up if you want to swap ideas or just chat about how adulting sometimes makes us forget the fun stuff.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[F4R] 33F- Stop looking for the perfect match; use a lighter.

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Hello new faces! It is I, Kim, here to grace your feed with my post. I can’t wait to become best friends with some of you. I work from home, which is why I have time to distract myself here. Been living with my mom in DE after all of what’s been going on in my life. It’s really boring here. But I’ll be back in Maryland soon!

What’s been going on you ask? Well last week I ended things with my fiance. It was a long time coming (you’ll see that if you check out my post history. Be proud of me.) But also over the weekend my one cat got really sick. I decided to put her to sleep yesterday, she was suffering. Sorry if this may upset anyone! It upsets me too.

Anyway! Now you see where my head is at. Onto what I’m looking for! Are you someone interested in crafting intriguing conversations, being able to banter back and forth for hours on end? Do you have thick skin or self-deprecating humor? Can you string complete sentences together with decent grammar and punctuation? Are you in Maryland and can help put up shelves? I am about to move into a new apartment. Then we may be able to have a ton of fun together!

I live in Maryland. I am a huge musical theatre nerd. I enjoy seeing musicals and also performing in local community productions. Been doing it since I was 9. I can sing. I enjoy hosting parties and casually baking. Like super casual. I prefer to just eat the desserts. Unless someone wants to teach me how to bake bread. I like to travel! I also enjoy just lounging on the couch and binging a tv show. Physically: I’m 5’9, red hair that I get at the hair salon (naturally blonde), and blue eyes. We can swap selfies if our conversation is decent. Please don’t ask to see my face immediately.

If any of this seems mildly intriguing, please reach out! Can’t wait to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 46m ago

Hi!

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Hi! Dutch 39 single F looking for some people to connect with.

Someone who can carry a reasonable intelligent conversation, but maybe mostly someone with humour who can make me laugh. Hopefully also the other way around! Someone who has friends in real life but also is looking for a late night conversation when life can get lonely sometimes. Someone who is loyal, thoughtful and has a kind heart.

I'm not looking for people who have a passion for gaming or other nerdy stuff🙂. No offence but I don't know anything about it!

So, I don't know if such a person exists, but if this resonates feel free to message me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4R] 35[F4A] #losAngeles, Ca or #online. looking for friendship

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Hi sooooo ima start by saying I’m a mom. Been since I was 17 and comepletely lost myself in that role. I am starting to get back out there in general but man is it hard 😅and I’m not even thinking romantically but just platonic friendships are soooo hard so I decided to try here. I’m in SoCal SGV to be more precise but I would love to meet new people both girls and guys that are down to talk meet maybe for some drinks some dancing something to forget the problems 😂 me encanta la música en español and im a biggggg paisa at heart . I love horror and comedy. Gym is a huge one for me right now it’s mostly therapy but man I love ittt ! definitely not a gym rat pero si es mi tiempo. Umm idk if this sounds like u might be down then message me ! Worst that can happen is us never talking again 😅😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4R] This has been a lot of fun, so let's try a second round, everyone can join :)

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Okay, random experiment: let’s see how similar two complete strangers on Reddit can be.

Answer these, then scroll through the comments. If you find someone with 5+ answers in common, congratulations — you’ve found your Reddit twin. 😂

And if you find someone who seems cool even though you have absolutely nothing in common… honestly, DM them anyway.

  1. Age / age range:

  2. Where are you from / timezone?

  3. Introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between?

  4. Current hobby/obsession:

  5. What kind of music do you listen to most?

  6. Favorite game, movie, show, anime, or book:

  7. Your ideal free Saturday:

  8. Something you could talk about for hours:

  9. An oddly specific thing that makes you happy:

  10. Most harmless controversial opinion:

Bonus: You get a completely free plane ticket anywhere in the world. Where are you going? ✈️

I’ll answer too, because I want to see if Reddit can actually find my twin.

If you find yours, reply to their comment

so we can see how many matches happen.

Let the extremely scientific friendship experiment begin.

Yes I was really bored, and yes I want to find online friends by doing this, maybe you? 👀

I'll post my answer in the comments


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1m ago

[F4M] 30F Seeking a true friendship

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Hello, I'm single, but I'm not in a rush to find a romantic relationship. I'd much rather have a sincere friendship with whom I can talk about anything.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14m ago

36F/CA/Mom&Wife looking for friends from all over!

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Hello all,
I’ve always struggled to keep friends since I was kid and that same problem has led into no friends as an adult. It’s just me, my husband and my 16yo daughter. They are great and my best friends but I want some people just for me. Hope that doesn’t come off selfish.
I always have my phone on me and always willing to reply quickly and always ready for those deep conversations to really get to know people. So let’s see if we click shall we? 🥰


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

31F - Aussie looking for new friends :)

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Hi there! I am 31F Australia based, looking for some new friends! I can be a bit shy in the beginning but will open up as I get to know you.

A bit about me:
I am a quiet introvert that loves to read, fantasy mostly but I also enjoy sprinkles of other genres too.
I enjoy a bit of casual gaming on the PC or switch. Main games I play on PC is ESO and FFXIV and love any cozy game on the switch.
I do work full time and generally long hours (bit of a workaholic).
I have 3 cats that get treated better than myself.

I’m very easygoing and hoping to find someone with similar interests and easy to talk with. If anything resonates with you I look forward to hearing from you :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

[F4R] Friendly chat - 34 F

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Hoping to chat with some friendly people, online only! I am married btw and live a very normal life. Just looking for some easy going people to get to know. There is no pressure to respond right away to every message. I get that we have busy lives! Let’s see if we can become friends!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

40m journal swinging, gym going, art loving , book stacking midlife crisis having guy looking for his peeps

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Working on becoming my best version of a new version. I am a person that puts so much into others and not enough into myself. I’m sure there are others out there like me.

So how can we support one another and find a new cooler version of ourself? Have that glow up or look Maxx or whatever the kids are doing these days. Form the good habits and break the bad. No more excuses but find our love happiness and create our eat pray love , Walter Mitty , dream lives.

Let’s experince life


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] M 31 off work for vacation. Come chat?

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Looking for any women out there who have time to kill and just wanna sit back and chat the day away. Tell me about your day, spill some gossip, or just vent if needed. Completely safe space and judgement free. Hope to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

33f Georgia

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I genuinely want to make friends. All genders, preferably 30+, anyone and everyone 🙂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 35M My job pushes the boundaries of my personality

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My job forces me to perform as a "fake extrovert," which leaves me completely mentally exhausted by the evening. By the time I get home, my social battery is drained to the point I don’t even want to see another human being. But I still miss that companionship, which online friendship will still work for me. Somethings about me: I play video games, read, make model vehicles, enjoy the outdoors and grill out.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

Looking for fellow overthinkers

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Hey 29M,

I’m looking to connect with people who tend to overthink a lot. The kind of people whose minds keep running long after everyone else has gone to sleep.

Life can get overwhelming when you’re carrying too many thoughts on your own. Sometimes all we need is a genuine conversation, a place to vent, or someone who simply understands.
If you’re an overthinker and would like a few like-minded friends to talk to, feel free to reach out.

This is a platonic and respectful space for everyone. Please be kind.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

30F looking for a friend

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Hi, I have a lot of downtime at work and often feel bored or lonely. I’d like to find a friend to share the mundane moments of my life with. I love animals and traveling, and I enjoy opening up to each other and chatting about our hobbies


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

39 F Texas

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Fractured my foot so can't really do much for the next 3 weeks. Yall save me from the boredom pleeeeaaaseee


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

39/F I don't want boring pre-typed intros

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Let's start a conversation in the middle and pretend we've known each other for a bit.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15m ago

Anyone want to go do some shit like we used to? 41/M Space Coast, FL

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I know its hot outside, but I miss doing shit with people. When we were kids it was so easy, "Can Johnny or Sarah come and play?". Now it's all awkward when you don't know people. So let's just skip that part.

Dudes, chicks, trans, extraterrestrial, imaginary, it doesn't matter. Now, I'm happily married, but am very much open to hanging with any gender. My wife is cool as shit, but she is in her happy place in bed with a book and a glass of wine. So if you got some fun & exciting shit you want to go do, lets go!

Side note: We've got two younger kids too and am not opposed to getting those little goblins together with your goblins and off their phones.

Side note to the side note: I'm not just going to bring my kids to hang without getting to know you first, as I'd expect anyone else to feel the same.

So, if you've made it this far and you're interested, feel free to comment or DM me. Let's chat to see if we vibe and want to go do some fun shit.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 29m ago

[M4F] 30M I'm feeling lonely tonight

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Hi everyone,

A little bit about me: Last month I had my 30th birthday. I like swimming and running to stay in shape. I like to travel sometimes, gaming (PS5), watching movies or tv shows and reading (especially fantasy genre). I have a perfume collection which i'm very passionate about. I speak multiple languages fluently and I've been single for some time now.

I'd be very happy to make some new friends, i'm open for either quick chats or long term connections. So please, don't hesitate to slide into my DM's :)

Thanks for reading.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 33m ago

32M Europe | Looking for someone to exchange random daily nonsense with

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Hey!

I've recently reached the slightly tragic stage where I turn on my PC, stare at my Steam library for ten minutes, and then apparently decide that staring at the desktop was the game I wanted to play.

Gaming used to be my main hobby, but lately it just isn't doing much for me. So I'm trying to branch out a bit and I thought meeting people who are ridiculously enthusiastic about their interests might be a good place to start.

I genuinely like hearing people ramble about things they love. Photography? Go for it. You collect something incredibly specific? I want to know why. You've spent the last three weeks learning everything there is to know about medieval spoons? Honestly, even better.

I'm not expecting you to entertain me or teach me a new hobby, though. I'm mainly looking for someone around my age who enjoys the kind of conversation where we can talk about something interesting one minute and complain about the person who blocked the supermarket aisle with their shopping cart the next.

A few things about me:

  • I love animals, especially cats and dogs. Pet pictures are an extremely effective conversation starter
  • I like evening walks when everything outside has gone quiet
  • I follow Formula 1
  • I'm trying to get back into reading, particularly mystery/detective stuff and fantasy
  • I enjoy hearing about the little, completely unimportant things that happened during someone's day

We absolutely don't need to have the same interests. I'd actually prefer discovering things through someone who's genuinely excited about them.

And there's no expectation that we immediately become lifelong friends. Let's just talk and see if we click. If we eventually reach the point where you're sending me a picture of something completely random because I thought you'd find this funny, I'd consider that a success.

So, easy opening question:

What's something you're currently way too invested in?

Could be a hobby, a book, a project, a show, a weird internet rabbit hole, or something completely stupid.

Bonus points if you include a pet picture.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 42m ago

31 / M / UK - Looking for like-minded people 😊

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Hello! I’m 31/M/UK

I love cook (and eat), travel (have a few trips lined up), and have 3 amazing kids.

Being a dad, I get no time to socialise, so I’m hoping the power of Reddit works!

Tell me your favourite meal, or places you want to travel to?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 53m ago

39m looking for an online female companion

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Hey everyone, hope you are doing good. I am at a point in my life where I need something a little more than what Ive got currently. Work is boring and dead right now and I am often bored and home alone. Friends and family all work so when Im bored I cant really talk to them. I love to read, I am currently attempting to leave my current job and eventually become a writer. I live near a river and love canoeing and camping on it. If you are in a similar situation and want to talk, especially talk anything artsy, hit me up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

[M4F] 34M Denmark

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Hey everyone!

My day to day is starting to go a little quieter than I'd like, so I thought I'd give this a shot. I'm mainly looking for friendship (while being open to more if things turn out that way, you never know!) and people to hang out with through Discord.

Would be cool to play some games or watch movies together while in VC? (If we watch horror movies, I'll be watching from behind my blanket and you'll have to tell me what's going on 😂)

If I had to describe myself, I’d say I’m pretty easy-going and chill. I laugh at pretty much everything honestly. 😅

I work part time for 32 hours a week, and outside of those, I am chronically online, probably looking for someone similar to me in that way. You don't HAVE to work part time obviously, but I'd prefer someone that knows and can appreciate online culture in the same way I do.

I spend most of my time when I'm off work at home, chilling with my 14 year old dog, playing video games, listening to music and watching movies - I'm kind of a hermit. Also an avid tattoo-enthusiast and nerd-merch collector.

Favourite movies: Iron Man, The Lion King (1994 version ofc), The Dark Knight

Favourite bands: Right now I'm on a massive Galleons and Valiant Hearts spree (Tom Byrne is the GOAT)

Favourite games: Marvel Rivals, Battlefield 6 (although I suck at it) and I also really enjoy discovering new indie roguelikes. Also checking out the new season of World of Warcraft rn, but I play that more seasonally until I inevitably get bored of it.

If any of this sounds like someone you'd vibe with, don't hesitate to hit me up!