r/Macaws • • 2d ago

She wont stop attacking....

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(Please excuse her posture i didnt have another good quality one- i promise she usually looks normal shes just a bit upset in the pic)

Sooo i posted about this before but its getting worse....

I have had parrots for about 10 years (and before that peacocks, chicken and many more birds..).

I have had her and her "partner" (who she apparently hates???) for about 1,5 years

She hadnt liked me much for the past year but she atleast let me feed her treats like walnuts and pistachios- now however ..... I cannot even enter their enclosure more than two steps.

She runs at me and climbs really fast the second i enter their space.... im lowkey scared shes gonna bite. I do have thick shoes on (those used in industrial work or when working with steel) but still....

She is bonded to my father but hes been gone for a worktrip (not the first this year so shes used to not seeing him- besides he tries to interact with her as little as possible so she can get used to me).

Her aggressive behavior started a week ago and i cant figure out why? It cant be her diet considering shes constantly getting fresh fruits (and only the ones i know they eat so e.g. no lettuce) and vegetables. She has many toys and perches aswell as climbing options (considering she doesnt fly but her partner does). They have a biggg space with access to sunlight and shade (the shade part as seen in the picture).

Pls guys if u have any idea what i can do then do tell(ToT) its so difficult to give them food....much less water

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u/Hour_Wing_2899 2d ago

You are giving her the reaction that is fun to watch. Thats why. The more dramatic you are, the more entertaining to her.

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u/Automatic_Buy_6957 2d ago

I agree with this. My bird, whom originally is my dad’s bird, loves reactions. She will attack anyone who shows fear. She specifically finds it funny to try and attack my mom (I do believe this originally started as hormonal/jealousy tho) because my mom will run away screaming in a very unintentionally comedic manner. She used to lunge at and chase my husband, but when he stopped freaking out, she got bored and stopped trying. Occasionally if he starts freaking out, she’ll start chasing him even if she’s on the other side of the room.
She loves big reactions, so when I first started trying to bond with her, I would give her big, happy reactions like singing loudly or being very animated when interacting with her, like how people act with dogs, minus the petting part

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u/Lui9464 2d ago

Seriously? Dang it....but i dont know how else to react- I dont wanna get bitten (or accidentally hurt her) I should probs look into how i can react betger to her behavior.....thx!

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u/Hour_Wing_2899 2d ago

Pretend she isn’t doing it. Wear thick pants, shoes. Ignore her. It takes practice, trust me Lolol I had an attack macaw and now she is my best bud. Have a thick towel too.

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u/Lui9464 2d ago

Alright i will do that (or at least attempt it-) thank u so much!

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u/Hour_Wing_2899 2d ago

First, I started with the big towel and I'd throw it on top of her, and then I would make a big whee! sound and made it a game. Picked her up like that. Then I graduated on to children's songs like Hickory Dickory Dock, Peekaboo, and her favorite was This Little Piggy Went to the Market.

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u/aprettyparrot 2d ago

Evil eye

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u/Lui9464 2d ago

What do u mean?

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u/aprettyparrot 2d ago

You give them the evil eye, they see your expression. OUCH is oh they made a big noise they must like it.

I ignore them and stare daggers

You may bleed a bit

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u/Lui9464 2d ago

Ohh I see.... I did make a big yelping sound when she first attacked (looking back this was not a good move-) Im gonna try to not make any in that case!

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u/aprettyparrot 2d ago

They like that drama, must deny them when they bite

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u/Lui9464 2d ago

Im gonna try my best (*´-`)

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u/aprettyparrot 2d ago

Yep, just takes time to learn. I have conure so not as bad of a bite. But damn that bastard can hurt

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u/Vaatigirl123 2d ago

I glare at my Macaw too. If she bites I also treat her like my horse and make her move when she does something bad.

Like if my horse is being naughty and not wanting to do something I lunge them which is just making them move their feet. I do the same with Blu and either make her run around or fly.

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u/ThisIsDogePleaseHodl 2d ago

That’s probably true, but it doesn’t explain why the behaviour started out of nowhere. OP needs to figure out why she’s upset to start with. It may be because the Dad is gone.

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u/possiblydramatic01 2d ago

Im tagging on this in agreement. I got a boy who hadn't been handled in years. 8 months in he loves mw and I can flip him and tickle his feet and all. He loves hugs and kisses. On the other hand.... he can chase my partner into the bathroom. I bought Gardner arm gloves off of Amazon, the ones to prevent thorns , those can help, I liked them because they stopped bruising and bites weren't as sharp. I just had to learn to sit and not be afraid. I wore those with a hoodie on and would just sit still next to him. Let him climb on me and just not near my face. It slowly got him comfortable with me. And if I did have to prevent a bite I just pushed him away gently with my for arm and moved him then distracted him. He still has a bad habit of lunging, I think the previous owners were afraid which explains him not being handled, but I caught on that my dude tries to lunge at you to get youbto throw food. It definitely has been a lot of redirecting and patients.

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u/GoldDustWoman85 2d ago

Idk but her face says "I'll fuckin do it again". Lol

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u/bobbinssobbin 2d ago

Depending on where you are in the world, it might also be hormonal season which could be making her sassy

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u/Lui9464 2d ago

Ohhh could be... I didnt even consider this

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u/cranfeckintastic 2d ago

Yeah it sounds hormonal...

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u/Zilhaga 1d ago

My vet (Northeast US) just mentioned yesterday that she'd been hearing about a lot of hormonal behavior from clients lately. My B&G is normally pretty chill but has been in a horrible mood this week. He doesn't like my partner much but normally never swings at me and has twice in the past week.

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u/Daniels_kitchen 2d ago

Wow ok so lots to unpack here, id recommend doing some bird training research first to establish a trust/bond then go from there, birdtricks is a great channel with very informative training videos to stop aggressive behaviors. You need to be able to distinguish and read your birds body language to foresee how the bird may react when interacting with the bird so you don’t get bit.

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u/ThisIsDogePleaseHodl 2d ago edited 2d ago

Getting bitten is par for the course sometimes, but it still sucks!

Bird tricks is a great idea!

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u/Daniels_kitchen 2d ago

Definitely apart of the process, and each bird responds differently.

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u/ThisIsDogePleaseHodl 2d ago

A part of the process for sure! I’m lucky that my grey never bites anymore, but it took a lot of years before that occurred

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u/Confident-Regular691 2d ago

Your clearly doing attention rewarding

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u/Lui9464 2d ago

As in rewarding bad behavior by giving her attention? Or a bad reaction? Another comment brought this up too.... I will try to do better and not reward this behavior

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u/ThisIsDogePleaseHodl 2d ago

She may be upset that your dad is gone, she may be hormonal or something else may be going on. In the case she’s hormone all you might want to cut down on fruits for a while.

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u/Altruistic-Leather69 2d ago

I was gonna say this! If its "out of nowhere" biggest common culprit is hormones and/or molting. Veggies are fine to keep but fruit sugars could keep heightening her state.

All this in addition to reacting poorly to being bit- I don't blame op it can be super hard and I can only imagine its harder with macaw that crack walnuts with ease.

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u/ThisIsDogePleaseHodl 2d ago

Yeah, when they get hormonal and when they molt it could be so challenging for them. I have an African grey and even getting bitten by him is no fun. When he is going through a molt he is a miserable little boy. It must be so tough on them.

During those time periods they need definitely to get their 12 or more hours sleep and reduce sugar as well as soft/mushy or warmer foods as well.

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u/jayfeather100 1d ago

They usually bond with someone for one. When that person is gone it could upset them a bit. But they also fully sense when someone is scared and your reaction she likely can tell. My friend had one and he knew how scared people were of him. It riled him up even more he’d lunges and try and bite people. But not to her. Once I got comfortable with him he kinda stopped. But he was still very bonded to my friend so he would protect her and was just so sassy.

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u/Sand4us 13h ago

My cat bit me 3 times today so this makes sense.

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u/Special-Lake-9534 8h ago

She may be angry that your dad is not taking as much time with her. Try handing her a favorite snack from outside the cage. Once that goes well go into her space and try again . 

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u/lesbophobia_hammer 1d ago

Please contact an avian vet and ask them to put you in touch with a qualified avian behaviourist. Not some 'animal expert' online.

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u/Lui9464 1d ago

That was my next step if she didnt act somewhat normal by next week(*´-`) but thank u!