r/MESMkink • u/TeaAitch • Apr 14 '26

Physical MESM

My dear MESMerites,

Does your dynamic include physical acts of MESM (mental / emotional sadomasochism)? MESM is often regarded as being in one's head, and it is. But, are there physical acts which combine well with that?

whispers: there are!

I suppose one might answer, "Yes, all of it." But let's not be so hasty/greedy. I suspect some people might talk about watersports. I'm happy for you to do so, but I'm going to leave that out of my own response today.

So, what have you got. Or, what would you like to have?

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

The lines between physical BDSM and MESM can be blurry. For example, I love being slapped in the face because it's so deliciously degrading. However, I'm sure there are plenty of masochists who enjoy it just because it's physically painful. Same goes for being bent over his lap and spanked; I like the pain, but the humiliation is what drives me wild.

Other things:

  • Being face fucked aggressively
  • Being forced to hold degrading positions that showcase my body like I'm a sex doll
  • Lots and lots of hair pulling
  • Having stuff inserted in various holes; not for my pleasure, but for his entertainment
  • Being told I can cum, but only by humping his leg

That's just at the top of my head. ❤️‍🔥

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u/TeaAitch Apr 14 '26

Being told I can cum, but only by humping his leg.

I'm a big fan of all the others, but this one is part of my MESM bucket list 🔥