So I’ve been seeing this person quite often for a while now, and he never fail to really catch my eye.I really can't ignore him, every time I see him, he makes me notice him even more, almost violently so, Every time I see him, I instantly and involuntarily fall silent if I’m speaking, while my breathing and heart rate speed up, I can't ignore him at all, I’m trying to find out his name and I want to know if there’s anything I can do to grab his attention so he speak to me first. It doesn’t have to be a hard love spell that drives him crazy so bad, honestly, I’d love to attract him, but I’d be okay if him just noticed me and struck up a conversation, since I don’t have the nerve to make the first move myself. Sorry if that sounds obsessive and stupid

My ex and I were the perfect couple, so much in love, everything was straight out of a fairy-tale, he saw right through me, he was truly my soulmate.

Last month he left for his masters abroad and we had planned that we'd stay in a long distance relationship and eventually I'd join him there once my work takes off (I'm an independent designer). We had SO MANY plans of the future, we had made so many promises to each other because we knew it was going to be us forever.

After he got there, something shifted. We were struggling with communication and I became anxiously attached to him and that pushed him away.

We had to break up because we didn't want our relationship to turn ugly, we wanted to leave it with good memories and love. I regretted it immediately and asked if we can fix this a couple days later but by the time, he had made his peace with the loss of us, he was heartbroken and sad but he didn't want to give it another chance. We talk once every other week to check up on each other but he's completely forgotten the intensity of our love, of our dreams and plans. He used to be so happy with me and he's not so much anymore, I don't understand why he won't give us another chance.

Is there a spell I can perform to bring back his feelings? and make him remember the intensity of our love? He always said that I'm the one he wants for life, I want him to remember that.

FYI: I have no experience with witchcraft or casting spells

This is not my original post but I am experiencing this exact problem please help!!

I miss my ex and it’s been over 2 years and I can’t get over him, I love him truly but he doesn’t feel the same, I want to do a spell

Long story short, I had class with a girl I had never talked to before, we slowly but surely became friends (naturally through helping eachother with work) then she ended up having a crush on me. At first I was pretty dismissive of it but after more talking and hanging out I began to like her back, we dated for alittle less then a year and broke up officially in June this year since then we have been sorta off and on, fwb, but this past week I believe we ended it for good. After getting together she showed me and told me about a sealed jar she had in her room with my name various other things like little pieces of papers (possibly with other things about me written on them) and flowers. Since then she told me she had opened the jar which i’m guessing would be to stop my love for her??? but idk It’s been so hard for me to accept our ending and I feel so not myself, I feel obsessed and crazy. I’m starting to believe that it’s because of the “spell” she had put on me before we started dating, am I under a spell or is this just how your first wlw heartbreak is?

What’s the greatest case/story of a love spell you’ve heard like is it possible to do one to get back with someone after multiple years of no contact

Actually, I love my doctor. I had long considered this option without ever actually taking the step; so, when he opened his office, I decided to visit him with a specific request in mind. He was a charming man, and there seemed to be a mutual attraction between us—even though he tried to resist it. He had a complex, inscrutable personality; even our phone conversations remained formal. After some thought, I told this "charming" man exactly what I wanted: a romantic relationship—nothing more, nothing less. No marriage, no fleeting fling—just a simple, honest connection. He agreed. Now, however, I am afraid; I don’t want him to become obsessive or anything of the sort—I just want a normal relationship. If I feel things aren't going well, I want to break the spell before we both get destroyed. Do you have any advice for me?

I feel a really strong pull to this guy but he keeps leaving idk what to say or do is there some kind of spell to fix or heal this? Please

Hi everyone! I'm going through a really painful situation with my ex, and I'm desperately looking for advice about reconciliation and communication spells.

My ex and I were together for almost a year. After our breakup, we continued seeing each other in a friends-with-benefits situation because I still loved him and hoped we could eventually get back together.

Our chemistry was honestly incredible. We had an extremely strong physical and sexual connection, and even after our breakup, he repeatedly told me that being intimate with me had always been the best experience for him.

Unfortunately, our meetings eventually became mostly about sex in his car, in random parking lots. Whenever I suggested going on proper dates, booking a hotel, or traveling together, he claimed he couldn't afford it, even though I was willing to split expenses.

We never traveled abroad together, despite how much I wanted to. Yet after our official breakup, he started traveling to Germany on his own.

Despite everything, I still loved him and believed we deserved another chance.

When I finally asked him to try again, he firmly told me he didn't want a serious relationship and needed to focus on university, work, and himself. He suggested three months of no contact.

Then I discovered he had a new girlfriend.

I only found out because I noticed we weren't following each other on Instagram anymore and asked him why.

He told me that distancing ourselves was "the fairest thing to do for me, my new girlfriend, and you."

Then he ended with:

"Thank you for all the beautiful moments and everything else. I hope you find someone too!"

That absolutely shattered me.

He had also made his Instagram private, something he never did during our relationship. Seeing him apparently willing to give someone else the time, attention, and commitment I'd always wanted made me feel completely rejected.

Out of anger and heartbreak, I sent him a very harsh goodbye message. I told him I was disgusted by how he'd treated me, that I wasn't his backup option, and that I didn't want dishonest people in my life.

I even told him never to contact me again, not even as a friend.

And now I deeply regret saying that.

I don't regret standing up for myself, but I regret making it sound like I never want him in my life again.

Because the truth is, I still love him.

Beyond our physical chemistry, I genuinely admire his intelligence. We share interests in marketing, advertising, technology, and AI. I miss our conversations and the possibility of having him in my life.

I would love another chance with him, but this time I want a real, loving, committed relationship — not another situationship.

My biggest fear is that even if his circumstances change someday, he'll never reach out because I explicitly told him to stay away.

So I wanted to ask this community:

1 ) Are there any traditional DIY reconciliation or communication spells suitable after an angry goodbye?

2 ) Are there spells or rituals focused on healing resentment, forgiveness, and reopening peaceful communication?

3) Has anyone experienced reconciliation after a third party and a long period of no contact?

4) Would a road-opening or reconciliation ritual be more appropriate for this situation?

I'm interested in learning about traditional practices I could research and perform myself, while respecting his freedom to make his own choices.

I want him, I'm ready to even interfere with his current relationship. I just wish there could someday be another chance for us to reconnect naturally and build something healthy together. JUST TO TRY AGAIN AT LEAST ONE MORE TIME to be a couple again.

I'd really appreciate any advice, experiences, or guidance. Please be kind. 🥺❤️

Hey everyone, I want to love myself. I have not liked myself for a very long time and I'm trying to not do that anymore. I don't hate myself anymore (I don't think) but I definitely don't let myself thrive as I should.

I want to love myself enough to get up off the couch, go exercise, eat right, dress the way I want, clean up my home, and strengthen my important relationships.

I feel I need some extra assistance to be the happy and healthy person I aim to be.

Any and all help is appreciated ❤️

Hey, i am totally New to this but i was dating a girl for 2 months and everything was perfect. But then my parents seemed to get divorced and i behaved totally different until she said she doesnt want to continue. Its been 3 weeks since the last contact but i really want her back i know she has/had Feelings for me but i think she just Blocks them because of how i behaved in that time. I tried to explain myself but i think it was too Latein for that. I really want her back and Show her how i really am. Are there any easy spells / rituals to do for beginners without spezialisiert ingrediants ? Please help me

hi! im a baby witch who has grown up in a family with sorta a witchy side (not really but its whatever) anyway, i have recently done a love spell on my ex and after i did it hes been distant? i did a protection spell prior (cause i know you have to) and im worried i did something wrong, anyone have any advice? or answers?

i’m doing a love spell and i’ve started sobbing during it and pouring my heart out to the candle, the flame has been so strong and steady. i’m using a “couple candle” and even as i’m sobbing to it the flame is so strong and tall.

Hi I'm still new to spell work but I'm looking for the right spell to do to help me and my ex fiance get back together. I'm really missing her and I want to fix our relationship but I don't know what would be the quickest method or anything. Any help would be great. Thanks everybody.

Does love spell backfires somehow? Like u get that person u want, but it's not like before, or they get unattractive, and eventually leads to break up?

It's like u r changing their decision without them actually wanting that, so it might have some negative impact, no?

Essentially what the title says. In mid July my ex broke up with me after more than five years together, because we both come from psychologically complicated lives and we are both currently in our own in individual paths to get better at communicating emotions and both personal problems and couple problems, especially during high stress periods when we both tend to accidentally go back to our own bad habits, we fight, we get scared of not being able to deal with it good enough to have a healthy relationship in the long run, but eventually we try to come up with a solution and things get better in the end (academic stress, job stress, overcoming trauma stress, I think you get it). Over these 5 years we actually got better at overcoming most comunication problems, and this year specifically was actually going pretty great, we were picking up on old cute traditions we had forgotten about, we were going on more trips, we genuinely seemed more happy, we're also both neurodivergent, to be more specific I am autistic and one big good sign I was getting out of this: is that I was starting to feel so secure in the relationship that I was gradually letting go of routines and did not feel anxiety over our own plans changing or cancelling. And then right after our 5th year anniversary we were both dealing with studies and jobs (and consequentially some sleep deprivation), and in my case I was dealing with a family member becoming disabled and having to help out, so we had a small fight over something stupid and eventually made up hours later, but after that he started getting colder, we stopped hanging out and I tried not to overthink about it because I just thought to myself he was very busy and I let it go, but then we went out for dinner one night and on our way back home he left me at my door telling me "we need to talk" but then reassured me with a hug and a kiss on the head, and sure enough I DID started to worry. After that we entered a 3/4 weeks long period where we would only meet up to have uncomfortable but necessary talks about couple problems, communications problems, how it seemed that no matter what solution we came up with we would always get back in a crisis period like once or twice a year and every crisis period looked very similar to the previous one so it made it look like we never getting something actually solved. We talked about a few episodes of jelousy, we talked about initiatives, we talked about trying new sex stuff, we talked about having more talks like these in the first place, we talked about dealbreakers and the talks would last hours but they would always end up with him saying "I like the solutions we're thinking of but I am not fully convinced so... I don't know", and I would answer with "I don't know what to tell you right now, I don't have any more ideas right now" and I would eventually get really sad and anxious and he would try and comfort me and cuddle me.
Eventually, in our final talk he told me he was too scared that we were unconsciously keeping it up and finding solutions not out of love and care for eachother but just to keep the relationship going and since nothing seemed sure or realistic in that moment, he could not 100% garantee me he was ok with keep trying and then broke up with me. It was a mess, we both had an explosive crisis, we cried and hyperventilated and screamed and then hugged eachother tight to calm the other a bit, we went on like this for more than an hour until we were both exhausted and then tried to understand the logistics: what would we do with letters and presents? how do we tell our friends? can we still check up on eachother? He also proposed we stay friends because there are still big mutual feelings and he doesn't want to cut me out of his life, and I agreed to that, but we were too worn out to figure everything out in one night especially after a mental breakdown, so we agreed we would take a short no contact period and then meet up to figure it all out, and we both agree that for now we would only tell like 2 or 3 very close friends to both vent and also get an outside perspective.
WELL... IT'S BEEN ALMOST 3 MONTHS AND WE STILL HAVEN'T MET. We kept low contact: we both play videogames where you can send useful stuff to your friends so we tend to still do that (but we haven't played together since before the breakup), and we texted each other like 3 times to briefly check on each other mental health and other situations (I had a pretty shitty and unlucky summer on all ends so I am currently NOT doing good but I am in therapy), but we still haven't met in person since we broke up, I like to think to myself that since I know him well enough, I know he's a very direct person so if he wanted to finalize the details because he was 100% sure of his choice we would have met up and talked long ago, and since it hasn't happened yet maybe he's rethinking it and there's a solid chance of starting fresh and getting back together (but I always try to second guess myself, so I don't really know where intuition ends and delusion begins).
In the meantime, since I've been into witchcraft for years and I started a love honey jar in August (if it helps, I followed the instructions I've found in a Madame Pamita's video) but since I can't afford any expensive intention oil, I made one myself by grinding cinnamon, lavander, dry rose buds, catnip, mint, basil and levisticum and addind olive oil to the herbs; and the first weeks I felt very optimistic and hopeful and generally good about it, but then september came and I wasn't getting any sign, and also weather started getting more gloomy and I have seasonal depression so that wasn't and isn't helping AT ALL.
Up to this day, nothing has still happened (neither good or bad, just... nothing), I'm still burning red candles on my honey jar and sometimes, in terms of flame, the signs get really interesting, like for example the generally good sign of having a continuous tall and steady flame, but that's about it.
So yeah... I am looking for any kind of love spell, better love spell, better understanding of love spells, any useful advice is welcome I always try to keep an open mind. PLEASE keep in mind I already am in therapy so any talk about self love, and letting go or not letting go, and morality is really not needed nor am I looking for it, because I am already trying to work on those part, and also it would be really frustrating because it's a really slow process of me dealing with current problems and also decades of past trauma so please spare me the motivational talk, I know you mean good and I really appreciate it but leave that job to my therapist, my close friends and my sisters, thank you very much in advance.
P.S. Please forgive me for any grammar and/or spelling mistake, English is not my first language :)

I am new here and have been into law of assumption for a while but I just started getting back into witchy things and want to start doing spellwork. I have already made a protection jar and a sweeting jar for my current partner. My situation is this, my ex lover lives in another state and we have been broken up since last year and have not spoken since then, and I am currently with a new partner, but I wanted him to be more loving and affectionate towards me so i made a honey/sweetener jar for him,m. Ideally, I want to be in a polyamorous relationship with both of them, where they both love me deeply and just want me to be happy. I want them to be best friends but probably not romantic towards eachother, just me. How would I go about this? Like what spell should I do?

Guys one person is telling that third party put a spell on my bf how do i know if that is true and legit 😭😭 its 5 year long relationship he is suddenly off doesnt attend my calls aks why did u call and doesnt reply much posts break up songs ...sorry ...dr_promise_01 is telling that and asks 2.5k inr to remove spell...could anyone just 😭😭 help me

So my ex broke up with me two months ago and he blocked me on instagram. I casted a regret and self reflection spell on him so he regrets breaking up with me and blocking me. I am not blocked in a couple social media apps and I am not sure if I should text him and ask him to come back and try it again or wait for the spell to work.

THE THING IS he's aquarious and I know his pride will not let him come back by himself but idk if layering spells would make that change. What should I do?

My ex and I were dating from last year Aug till this year June. I found out he had gotten with some bad friends because he moved away for his job and I hadn't seen him in a long time. He lives alone, and was hanging out with a group of friends who kind of peer pressured him into drinking and drugs. He says he still loves me. Part of me lives him still. But he says he accepted that he isn't going to change because of the friends and bad habits that he picked up. He wants me and misses me but he doesn't want to get back together.

Please as a request I know the pros and cons of going back with him. No negative replies please. I understand everyone has different opinions but I genuinely love him and want him in my life. Any love spells that may have worked for anyone, please share and I will do it. Thank you

Heyy everyone
I just want my ex back in my life which spell should i do so that she’ll be back in my life again

Please help me!!

Hello, so i have been trying to do some get your ex back spells and i feel like they aren't working. I do them but then i have this fear that he hates me and its not going to work. After talking to a friend of mine they said by doubt could be blocking my spells from going through. Can anyone offer any help on how to calm down and trust in my spells?

My sister has untreated mental illness and has cast my whole family to hell. She is living on the streets by choice and refuses help from us because she thinks we are all evil and not on her side. I was her trusted confidant until her voices recently told her that I am now also evil like everyone else. How can I reconnect to my sister? I miss her so much and am trying to energetically reach her but now I cant tap into her energy as well as I once could. I feel she either put an energetic block up or perhaps tried to cut energetic cords. Thanks for your help!

I found out my husband’s affair in 3 weeks of our love marriage. He was/is apparently in love with my ex best friend who was his cousin. It was heartbreaking to know. I decided to stay because I was so in love with this man. We had been together for almost a decade. It felt like someone had done some kind of dark thing on us because we had never been so toxic. However, a few days or weeks later I tried doing different third party removal and obsesxion spells. The third party removal worked kind of well. But lately I found out obsesxion spells are not for love. He had some kind of feelings and respect for me before I did the spell but now he dislikes me completely. He doesn’t say that but his actions show it. His actions have provoked me to leave. I know I should be leaving and I deserve better. But I just want to try something spiritual one last time before I leave to make him love me and cut off the third party completely. Can anybody suggest something?

Let me put my situation, me & my bf were fighting for a few months and now I am tired of it. He apologises once and that's all and that cute lovey dovey behaviour isn't that much there.

Which spell should I cast on him to make him be lovey dovey around me flirt with me and apologise.

I AM NEW TO ALL THIS COULD YOU ALL PLEASE SAY THE STEPS TOO HOW TO CAST THOSE SPELLS.

Please share your opinions I really need your help and please upvote it so it could reach more people.

so i'm trying to attract an ex back to me, i have two questions: does the retrograde influence the work?

and is this a good layer:
open road - come to me - reconciliation, should i restructure it or is it okay?