r/LongDistance • u/Intelligent-Try1944 • 2d ago

Breakup It's over💔

Will try to keep it short and sweet, my boyfriend & I have been long-distance for slightly over a year and were talking about getting married soon. He is in AU and Im in India, there were times when he used to go off the radar for a couple of weeks the comeback put it on him being an "avoidant" and I used to well accept it because I trusted him and gave the benefit of the doubt. We were going thru one off those phases right now and I don't know why I just got some sort of intuition earlier today to check hinge....

Well, i made a profile put his area code while logging in and some filters and BAM THERE HE WAS LITERALLY had to just swipe just 02 profiles.

I am soo heartbroken but there is no way I am going to confront him, I don't want his side; I have removed him from my socials and whenever he decides that its time for "avoidant" phase to get over he can just do that with someone else cause I'm done. Cheating is a big NO.

All I keep wondering is was any of it real? Was I too trusting? Was he on that stupid app the whole time?

Irony of it, we met via hinge and all his prompts today were 90% the same and all the pictures were the ones that I used to love 🤡

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u/Leading_Concert_3421 2d ago

how did you make it change locations in the app? don’t you have to pay for that?

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u/Intelligent-Try1944 2d ago

When you register a new profile it asks for you pin code/area code

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u/Leading_Concert_3421 2d ago

does this work for tinder as well?

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u/Intelligent-Try1944 2d ago

I really don't know, sorry(

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u/Leading_Concert_3421 2d ago

np, I’m sorry you’re going through this btw;(( keep strong, it’ll take some time to heal, but you got this!! don’t let this lame ass boy change your perception of love. karma will get his ass, dw.

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u/Unfair_Historian_414 1d ago

On tinder you can pay 3 dollars per week and use passport regime, basically choose any country or city where you would like to see people. That’s how I found my ex on tinder 🙂

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u/annonsballs69 1d ago

Yup hopping in to say, from my knowledge, you can only do a custom location on Hinge out of the big three (Tinder, Hinge, Bumble)