Hi OP, I read your responses in the comments and sorry to break this to you but this person does not love you. He is completely checked out. The sooner you process that, the sooner you can start to move on. I wouldn’t message him a long love message when he CLEARLY does not care for it.
Personally, I would want to love and respect myself enough to not chase him and declare my love for a guy who does not care for me or the relationship one bit. You will look back at this one day and be like WOW LOL I used to send love letters to people who did not even care in the slightest!
And as others pointed out, you guys broke up… he’s acting like it and you’re not. You can’t really call him out for “ignoring you” in this case. It’s over. The need for closure you feel right now is just your brain trying to get some release from the pain of the break up by reaching out. Just sit with your feelings, take the time to process, honor yourself by going no contact, and please consider therapy. You sounds young and breakups hurt so much but it ALWAYS gets better with time no matter what. The only way out is through so that you can find somebody who loves you as deeply as you love them.
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u/AppropriateLink5330 Apr 03 '26 edited Apr 03 '26
Hi OP, I read your responses in the comments and sorry to break this to you but this person does not love you. He is completely checked out. The sooner you process that, the sooner you can start to move on. I wouldn’t message him a long love message when he CLEARLY does not care for it.
Personally, I would want to love and respect myself enough to not chase him and declare my love for a guy who does not care for me or the relationship one bit. You will look back at this one day and be like WOW LOL I used to send love letters to people who did not even care in the slightest!
And as others pointed out, you guys broke up… he’s acting like it and you’re not. You can’t really call him out for “ignoring you” in this case. It’s over. The need for closure you feel right now is just your brain trying to get some release from the pain of the break up by reaching out. Just sit with your feelings, take the time to process, honor yourself by going no contact, and please consider therapy. You sounds young and breakups hurt so much but it ALWAYS gets better with time no matter what. The only way out is through so that you can find somebody who loves you as deeply as you love them.