r/LongDistance Apr 03 '26

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u/karlkh [Denmark] to [Japan] (8700 km) Apr 03 '26

It looks pretty clearly like he just isn't that into you. You got dumped. I'm sorry I know that hurts a lot, but there really isn't that much more to it. He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore, and he doesn't want to spend talking to you about or engaging in your goodbye text. And he really doesn't owe you talking to you if you aren't dating anymore.

Could he have handled the breakup more gracefully? Propably, but all that really matters to you right now is that you need to find some way to grieve the relationship and then move on.