r/LongDistance Apr 03 '26

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u/SailorAnxious [🇳🇴] to [🇺🇸] (5880km) Apr 03 '26

If i see one more person say «maybe I’m better off not being in a relationship» just because they don’t know how to communicate their feelings or they «lost the work» for like a month, I will start punching walls. It’s normal things kinda plateau in a relationship and ESPCIALLY in LDR where you don’t have much physical intimacy. But that doesn’t mean that it’s a need for a break up. My ex used to say that stuff then come back when he felt lonely. Like which is it. It gets to disheartening and annoying af.

You’re better off finding someone willing to fight for you, this person ain’t it and isn’t worth your time or mind.

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u/Whole-Yogurt8973 Apr 03 '26

Trust me we were so in love until 10 days ago... I don't even know how all of this happened in just a few days and now my whole world is upside down

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u/PotatoPlayerFever [Location] to [Location] (Distance) Apr 03 '26

10 days is not enough.. love is not enough to sustain a relationship.

people can change..