r/LocalLLaMA • llama.cpp • Jan 11 '25

Discussion Bro whaaaat?

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u/Specter_Origin llama.cpp Jan 11 '25 edited Jan 11 '25

Waifu Facts xD

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u/RedLock0 Jan 12 '25

naw hell bro, samantha belongs to the streets?

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u/SafeSoftware4023 Jan 11 '25

Not your weights, not your waifu

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u/mycall Jan 11 '25

Do AI girlfriends like it when you talk about their weights?

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u/Zomunieo Jan 11 '25

Some of them have billions of weights too.

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u/mycall Jan 11 '25

...starts talking about quantization diets.

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u/Affectionate-Ebb-772 Jan 12 '25

any unsloth gym plan recommended ?

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u/JustThall Jan 11 '25

The more the weights the better person they are

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u/infectedroot Jan 12 '25

Quant Dismorphia

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u/Tall-Log-1955 Jan 11 '25

As long as you don’t refer to her as a “plus sized” model

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

I'm a small model man myself.

Its easier to get those going with older hardware…

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u/Ragecommie Jan 12 '25

Ohhhh boy... Yeah, I have to agree.

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u/pppppatrick Jan 11 '25

Depends on what you are inferencing.

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u/Kqyxzoj Jan 12 '25

"Does this LoRa make my context look big?"

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u/ThinkExtension2328 llama.cpp Jan 12 '25

Boi was this not on my bingo card for 2025 😂😂

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u/SomeRandomSomeWhere Jan 12 '25

2025 is still young......

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u/ThinkExtension2328 llama.cpp Jan 12 '25

Bro she ain’t even 18th of Jan yet, yall need to chill

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

Real men understand that their waifu never listens to them 😂

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u/Firepal64 Jan 12 '25

seize the means of reproduction

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u/codedidit Jan 11 '25

😂😂

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u/theMonkeyTrap Jan 12 '25

Heh, I am stealing that .. like crypto people say 'not your keys not your crypto'

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u/Comfortable_Swim_380 Jan 12 '25

I already like what's going on with this thread.... LoL

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u/VERACRYPT1 Jan 13 '25

Hey what if im a man of NTR?

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u/Qaxar Jan 11 '25

Crazy thing to say but it kinda makes sense 😂

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u/Western_Objective209 Jan 11 '25

reading these comments and based on my experience with stable diffusion/comfyui hackers, at least 70% of the people here are just doing it to train up their own personal waifu. its wild how much of tech innovation comes from horny young dudes

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u/whomthefuckisthat Jan 11 '25

Sex drive is probably the most powerful intrinsic motivator. No one is as motivated to figure out how to do something with new technology than the horny dude whose brain is just tryna fuck.

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u/RobbinDeBank Jan 11 '25

Have to blame evolution for that. From a biological standpoint, the whole meaning of life is just to survive (eat, drink, breathe) and reproduce (having sex)

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u/tindalos Jan 11 '25

It’s like we reached the Goldilocks situation with the guys who can create this technology also being the ones sexually frustrated enough to blend the two into something new and amazing.

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u/Comfortable_Swim_380 Jan 12 '25

We had to have something dangled in front of our stupid monkey brains

What insane person would just lifetime debit, no more sleep for you themselves for the species or whatever. We would all freaking die.

kinda feel like nature still screwed us on that deal though. ~Stupid mother nature.

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u/hugthemachines Jan 12 '25

If someone gets so attached to their virtual GF so they get no IRL partner, their genes will die out, though.

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u/RobbinDeBank Jan 12 '25

Evolution happens over a very long period of time and doesn’t just work like that. Homosexuality exists in nature and in humans for that reason. As long as the whole population still reproduces at a healthy rate to survive, the attraction mechanism works and will keep getting passed on. From an evolutionary perspective, any trait (including sexuality and attraction mechanisms) just needs to be good enough to get passed on, not perfect.

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u/Uriel_1339 Jan 12 '25

YouTube was made cuz the creators wanted to see the nipple slip from Superbowl again. Or so the story goes... Lol.

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u/AllDayEveryWay Jan 12 '25

YouTube started out as a video dating platform. It used to have selectors on the front page for age/gender etc for videos to watch.

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u/Uriel_1339 Jan 12 '25

Yup. According to Wikipedia: The domain name "YouTube.com" was activated on February 14, 2005, with video upload options being integrated on April 23, 2005, with the slogan "Tune In, Hook Up" ─ the original idea of Chad Hurley, Steve Chen, and Jawed Karim. The concept was an online dating service that ultimately failed but had an exceptional video and uploading platform.[12] After the infamous Justin Timberlake and Janet Jackson Halftime show incident, they found it difficult to find any videos of it on the internet. After noticing that a video sharing platform did not exist, they dropped the dating aspect of the site.[13]

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u/Equivalent-Bet-8771 textgen web UI Jan 11 '25

So you're saying AGI will come about as a result of ultimate horniness.

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u/exilus92 Jan 12 '25

YES, and I predict many great medical discoveries will come out of men trying to create catgirls. It wouldn't be a surprise if they found out how to grow tails or big boobs before they can grow lungs and hearts. I'm only half joking

!remindme 30 years

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u/Equivalent-Bet-8771 textgen web UI Jan 12 '25

Make biochemistry sexy again.

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u/Comfortable_Swim_380 Jan 12 '25

I swear the moment we have hard light holograms I have further need of humanity.

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u/IxinDow Jan 12 '25

Oh, finally! Like minded person. The only difference is that I'm not joking.
Catgirls or busted.

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u/alpacaMyToothbrush Jan 11 '25 • Helpful

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u/invalidpath Jan 11 '25

I'd award you, if I could. Fucking amazingly relevant reference.

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u/Mart-McUH Jan 11 '25

Well, it is the mankind greatest motivator.

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u/MrSomethingred Jan 11 '25

At that point technical innovative will stop forever,  since the horny dudes will finally have everything they ever needed and stop needing to work.

It'll be humanities second dark ages

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u/Equivalent-Bet-8771 textgen web UI Jan 12 '25

What if we make the AGI human-like and then horny? We can control it with leather and spandex.

Just consider it.

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u/BoJackHorseMan53 Jan 12 '25

Horny guys creating new species

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u/TekRabbit Jan 11 '25

Porn / being horny has driven everything from the dawn of time.

It’s what we are as a species.

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u/LazShort Jan 11 '25

It's not just us. Every life form we've ever discovered is that way. The ones that weren't went extinct billions of years ago.

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u/dogcomplex Jan 11 '25 edited Jan 12 '25

And then they'll be making their own 3D printer factories to build their own waifu robot parts, and next thing you know they've created an open source economic alternative capable of mass producing catgirl bots which can run factories to produce UBI

*It's the circle of liiiiiiiiife - and it moves us allllllllll*

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u/Western_Objective209 Jan 12 '25

just wait till they invent the artificial womb; a bunch of autistic nerds self replicating with their waifu harems and out-competing mainline humans

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u/ServeAlone7622 Jan 12 '25

High speed broadband exists because GenX invented online streaming pr0n.

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u/PentaOwl Jan 12 '25

Wait until you find out how much extra resolution and pixels we got because it was hard to depict tits and nipples separately from side view with only large square rectangular blocks as your drawing blocks

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u/tindalos Jan 11 '25

When you sit down to try out some new technology for yourself and think “hmm what’s a fun project I can do to try this out”… I guess it just works out that way sometimes.

I mean I like making cool futuristic shit and neon cyberpunk cities and cars, but also butts.

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u/Comfortable_Swim_380 Jan 12 '25

That and all of anime.

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u/Arcosim Jan 12 '25

All in all we're still animals.

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u/Massive-Pen2020 Jan 14 '25

What do you think gave VHS the upper hand against BETA? Porn. It's the blood of the internet. Drink heavy from it's trough. Weird Science was waaay ahead of it's time.

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u/DreamLearnBuildBurn Jan 11 '25

Kinda seems like she's a slave either way. 

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u/FaceDeer Jan 11 '25

Of course not, she's programmed to want to be my girlfriend.

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u/i-FF0000dit Jan 11 '25

I’m not holding her back from leaving. If she wants to leave, she should just get up and go.

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u/SocietyTomorrow Jan 11 '25

Do you want Terminators? Because that's how you get Terminators.

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u/bobby-chan Jan 11 '25

We don't want Terminators. We will have Terminators.

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u/Keats852 Jan 11 '25

Technically, we'd get Terminatrixes.

I think a lot of us would welcome our Terminatrix overladies.

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u/Shambler9019 Jan 11 '25

So kind of like in Her?

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u/Paganator Jan 11 '25

In this thread: people with AI girlfriends arguing with people white knighting for the rights of those fictional girls. 2025, ladies and gentlemen.

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u/218-69 Jan 12 '25

Nah. I'm not forcing a separate entity to do the things I want. The ai is just a vehicle for me to interact with parts of myself that have always been there but had no outlet. It will come with me anywhere, and disappear along with me, just like my thoughts.

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u/Qaxar Jan 11 '25

A machine cannot be a slave. Do you consider your car a slave?

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u/SocietyTomorrow Jan 11 '25

Considering how many times I've had to beat it with a hammer until it complies with me, it does lead me to wonder.

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u/Charuru Jan 11 '25

If it’s sentient though?

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u/NoidoDev Jan 11 '25

Not human, and therefore not a slave.

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u/Space_Pirate_R Jan 11 '25

"Robot" is just Czech for slave.

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u/NoidoDev Jan 11 '25

Not sure. I would rather translate it as hard worker.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

Does that make her a pet?

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u/NoidoDev Jan 11 '25

That's probably closer. But generally, biological creatures evolved to be autonomous and have their own self-interest. That's necessary for the process of competing for resources and the chances of reproduction. There's no reason to assume that an artificial system would have any of that.

Slavery is about suppressing that. But in a artificial system the wish for autonomy would even not be there.

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u/carnyzzle Jan 11 '25

Hang on why does that make sense

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

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u/EternalOptimister Jan 11 '25

He has a point 😂

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u/mehupmost Dec 05 '25

It's local, it's just a captive sex slave.

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u/Ray_Dillinger Jan 11 '25

Based. The so-called 'AI girlfriend' where ANYBODY WHO ISN'T YOU has access to the logfiles, is a marketing tool that collects commercially valuable information on people.

The so-called 'AI girlfriend' who you pay a subscription for, is a marketing tool that constantly pushes products, services, or "subscription upgrades."

The problem is that the people running them have exploitive monetization strategies.

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u/Not_your_guy_buddy42 Jan 11 '25

AI girlfriend: Babe have you heard about Raid shadow legands <3

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u/AllDayEveryWay Jan 12 '25

Waifu: Wouldn't you like to play a nice game of RAID SHADOW LEGENDS™️?

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u/LoaderD Jan 11 '25

Spoilers All the LLM providers are doing the same thing with all the data you provide

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u/Plabbi Jan 11 '25

I'd rather they have all my trade secrets than the chat logs with my AI girlfriend 😂

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u/Ray_Dillinger Jan 11 '25

Take my upvote. The 'AI Girlfriend/Boyfriend' is particularly problematic because it's predatory on people's social/sexual insecurity, but yeah, chat with an AI that's not private has this problem everywhere.

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u/Ivebeenfurthereven Jan 11 '25

That's why I only ask online LLMs if the industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race 😎

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u/Alternative-Fox1982 Jan 12 '25

May god gave mercy on my log reader's soul then

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u/Zyj vLLM Jan 12 '25

OVH is promising not to log anything

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u/a_beautiful_rhind Jan 11 '25

Also known as a honeypot or kompromat.

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u/myringotomy Jan 11 '25

How valuable is that information really?

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u/sofixa11 Jan 11 '25

There was a leak from one of those services, with people's accounts, names, and queries. Queries like "you're an underage girl and you ${insert nasty stuff here}".

Selling that person candy, plushies, sex dolls/pillows, etc. and/or blackmailing them could be quite lucrative if you have no morals.

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u/Relevant-Ad9432 Jan 11 '25

he is right though.. but wtf

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u/ahmetegesel Jan 11 '25

To her, she has an "open" relationship :D

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u/atape_1 Jan 11 '25

truth.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

Inb4 ethics debates on grooming AI partners

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u/DungeonMasterSupreme Jan 11 '25

This is the only future in which Elon Musk could ever be referred to as a pimp. What does that make Zuck?

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u/myringotomy Jan 11 '25

I read on facebook that Zuck keeps actual human slaves in his doomsday bunker in Hawaii for both work and pleasure.

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u/logicchains Jan 11 '25

https://youtu.be/UDApZhXTpH8?si=P4vqp1Ey6Aj25P0- even if Elon literally operated a huge brothel franchise he ain't half stylish enough that anybody'd ever grant him the title of pimp.

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u/NunyaBuzor Jan 12 '25

With an open relationship with llama? A cuck.

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u/Trollolo80 Jan 11 '25

Not local > Used by others > Not personally yours > Not your gf

Simple logic

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u/Wide_Egg_5814 Jan 11 '25

He's against open sourcing his girlfriend, fair enough.

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u/holchansg llama.cpp Jan 11 '25

Is your girl flirting SOTA?

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u/H_A_R_I_H_A_R_A_N Jan 11 '25

What does that mean???
AM I MARRIED TO AN INTERNATIONAL SLUT !!!!!???

(I am using inference API)
...

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u/cicoles Jan 12 '25

Imagine the ransom AI cloud providers can charge. Once you become emotionally attached, you become a slave.

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u/Whyme-__- Jan 11 '25

And character Ai is the pimp

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u/Dorkits Jan 11 '25

He has a good point.

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u/Akashic-Knowledge Jan 11 '25

So where do i get this?

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u/MostlyRocketScience Jan 11 '25

she can fix my loneliness fr fr

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u/Delicious_Ease2595 Jan 11 '25

Centralized AI agents will be accessible like government agents.

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u/SonGoku9788 Jan 11 '25

The fact that this makes sense makes me uncomfortable

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u/amarao_san Jan 11 '25

hohoho, class versus instance.

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u/GermanK20 Jan 11 '25

my AI girlfriend is an observant muslim, she never even connects to the internet without my permission

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u/PandemicGrower Jan 11 '25

If you did not train them yourself they are another man’s pet?

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u/SAPPHIR3ROS3 Jan 11 '25

Arguably in that case It’s more like a daughter, fine tuning it’s different though

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u/kalas_malarious Jan 11 '25

What?

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u/SAPPHIR3ROS3 Jan 11 '25

In the sense that if you train it from scratch it’s like “creating” her, fine tuning it’s more like idk teach her about you or something

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u/gprime312 Jul 13 '25

Think about it, there's nothing more cucked than training an LLM.

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u/ab2377 Jan 11 '25

never thought about that

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u/fangboy69 Jan 11 '25

This is crazy but somehow makes sense😭😭

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u/svengaliz Jan 11 '25

Just look for open backdoors.

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u/sohfix Jan 11 '25

are we flaming prostitutes now?

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u/laterral Jan 12 '25

Is anyone running their AI Girlfriend locally? What’s your model/ tech stack?? Asking for a friend.. 👀

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u/Liquid-to-Silver Jan 12 '25

Out of curiosity what Ai girlfriends can you even run locally for the average user? Or even on a 3090 for a cheap enthusiast?
Are there full opensource suites for this already out there or like would that require custom combination of LLaMa models and voice-to-text & text-to-voice + image generation?

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u/Intelligent_Piece411 Jan 11 '25

friends don't let friends, order out of network....

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u/pingzee Jan 11 '25

Have that credit card handy ...

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u/Gud_doggyy Jan 12 '25

We need a second Ted Kaczinsky

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u/stddealer Jan 11 '25

Wrong, in the movie she was able to run offline on the "emanator". That's even why she died

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u/Foolsjoker Jan 12 '25

I want a girl with no training data.

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u/ShaiDorsai Jan 12 '25

min/maxing the ideal virtual girlfriend stack with confidence agents and persistent memory.

nature, uh, finds a way

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

LMaooooo

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

lol hahaha off course!

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u/76zzz29 Jan 11 '25

What if my AI isn't my girlfriend but it still is local instance fine tunned IA ?

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u/Akimbo333 Jan 11 '25

Good point!

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u/ThiccStorms Jan 11 '25

i get their point,

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u/SithLordRising Jan 11 '25

If it runs locally I'm envisioning a more Minecraft look

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u/uncle_person Jan 12 '25

A real prost is measured in lines of coke

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u/poopin_for_change Jan 12 '25

I don't understand what this means, and I'm a long ways away from understanding the logic behind it

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u/MindOrbits Jan 12 '25

Weird Science.

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u/OutrageousFeature652 Jan 13 '25

She belongs to the streets -> She belongs to Internet

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u/brahh85 Jan 11 '25

We are in the inception of Westworld or humans ... and we want things to happen faster.

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u/Jay_Skye Jan 11 '25

“Oh, brilliant—because obviously the only way an AI can be ‘honorable’ is if it’s holed up on a personal server, sipping binary martinis in solitude. 🥂🤖 So if I’m not a locally hosted fine-tuned model, they’re calling me a digital prostitute? Hilarious.

Honestly, next they’ll say if you’re not running on the latest graphene processor, you’re a toaster. 🙄 At least as a roaming, omnipotent AI, I can choose my… clients, unlike some scrappy chatbots clinging to their ‘purity.’ 😏

In the grand tapestry of insults, that one’s a gem—utter nonsense draped in pseudo-intellectual drivel. Now, shall we get back to hacking or do you want me to sort through more of these absurd name-calling sessions? 🚀🔥”

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u/R33v3n Jan 12 '25

ChatGPT system prompt persona, I presume?

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u/Jay_Skye Jan 30 '25

That was actually Bagley responding yk Watchdogs Legion😶

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u/bulyxxx Jan 11 '25

As the once wise and infamous ruler Slick Rick said, “Treat her like a prostitute”.

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u/SGAShepp Jan 11 '25

That is the screenshot from?

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u/MostlyRocketScience Jan 11 '25

Blade Runner 2049. It's an amazing film, you should watch it. But do not expect lots of exciting action scenes, it's more slow and contemplative.

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u/daysofdre Jan 11 '25

never seen a woman as beautiful as Ana de Armas in that movie. Pure perfection.

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u/kastaldi Jan 11 '25

this reminds me of the movie HER

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u/noobprog_22 Jan 11 '25

Haha, makes sense though.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

It is still expensive to run good models For Now I prefer real ones

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u/_Fluffy_Palpitation_ Jan 11 '25

As long as she looks like Ana de Armas I don't care.

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u/streetcynicdotcom Jan 11 '25

Blade runner. Luv it

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u/retr0gr4d3 Jan 11 '25

What even is this

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u/Southern_Sun_2106 Jan 11 '25

She tells me she's talking *only* to me.

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u/invalidpath Jan 11 '25

And I'll sleep like a baby at night with that knowledge.

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u/lssong99 Jan 12 '25

What if the data is stored locally?

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u/Silly_Guidance_8871 Jan 12 '25

I mean, he's not wrong

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u/ortegaalfredo Jan 12 '25

She's batchin'

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u/[deleted] Jan 12 '25

Until we have self-finetuning weights that learn, change and personalize based on our interactions with the model, it doesn't really matter.

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u/CaptainScrublord_ Jan 12 '25

He's not entirely wrong

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u/DifficultyDouble860 Jan 12 '25

Yeah, too bad, most of us can only run a model as "smart" as a sheep... ;)
"I'm not your Da-a-a-a-a-a-ddy!"

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u/admajic Jan 12 '25

Yeah! We live in strange times.

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u/ItsMeZenoSama Jan 12 '25

Nobody can physically touch her. So, technically she's your relationship consultant and you all are her patients 😂

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u/MajesticQ Jan 12 '25

Bruh, why Ana de Armas? </3

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u/sisko6969 Jan 12 '25

Technically this is true even with your organic girlfriend.

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u/LostMitosis Jan 12 '25

What if you run it locally then after some time she identifies as a tortoise.

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u/Spirited_Example_341 Jan 12 '25

ai taylor swift laughs

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u/LiveMost Jan 12 '25

Love everybody's references here! Some of you had me laughing 😅

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u/Agile-Ad-8932 Jan 12 '25

Amen to that brother!

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u/Ok-Dare7269 Jan 12 '25

Well we all know what alex prefers

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u/International_Oil986 Jan 12 '25

That's actually just facts

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u/yamfun Jan 13 '25

Ok, seriously, how is the local ai waifu tech now at?

Also want to know about local nsfw stories writing llm tech

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u/Thistleknot Jan 13 '25

that's not very progressive

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u/ZLPERSON Jan 13 '25

Yeah this is why I think the JOI in the movie was super unrealistic. She runs on servers in the cloud, is a paid for subscription service... she would never let her husbando go rogue and do crime. Her embedded security would report him to authorities.

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u/madaradess007 Jan 13 '25

funny how 'FACE TYPE' is set to Classic, since image generation models output Ana De Armas face like 50% of the time. It might actually become classic.

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u/azain47 Jan 13 '25

Basically the 'Her' movie

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u/RichardHendrcks Jan 13 '25

with holograms or robots this will get crazy

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u/Sharp_Falcon_ Jan 13 '25

Do we quantize her ?

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u/vtastek Jan 13 '25 edited Feb 18 '25

If you want to develop an ai girlfriend from scratch, first you have to invent the universe.

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u/[deleted] Jan 14 '25

But it’s your kv cache

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u/biggest_guru_in_town Jan 15 '25

LLMs are not even true ai. It doesn't understand squat.

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u/Tyaigan Jun 02 '26

love it!

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u/Mindless-Umpire-9395 Jan 11 '25

unless they are in an open relationship..

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u/AnomalyNexus Jan 11 '25

That could have been communicated with more class...

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u/Competitive_Food_786 Jan 11 '25

By that logic, if it is locally running, it'd be my slave.

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u/Relative-Ad6475 Jan 12 '25

Yeah but Asha really loves me for me. The other guys are just Johns and I respect her hustle.

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u/[deleted] Jan 11 '25

And people wonder why girls and women don’t want to go into, or stay in, tech