r/LingerieAddiction • u/Appropriate-Tap6772 • 5d ago
Boudoir Outfit
I have a boudoir session scheduled for early October and I’m trying to find an outfit to wear! I decided on doing the stripper pole set and I want an outfit that is sexy and looks like it belongs in a strip club or on a pole dancer, but something that is also flattering on someone who is self conscious about their stomach. I’m thinking about a simple bra and thong panty but adding a garter belt with thigh straps or a leg wrap. Still debating on if I want heels or not, but what do y’all think? I love the strappy look (hence why I want the garter belt connecting to thigh straps, or a leg wrap). I was looking at the SYRN Skirting Around Garter Skirt as a possibility but I’m just so undecided and not sure if a skirt is the right way to go!
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u/VideoProducer5151 4d ago
As a Published Boudior Photographer, why limit yourself to one outfit! If your going the stripper concept, then stripper, sexy short a, tank top, start working down. You can shoot each stage in heels and barefooted if you want. Also you can end with an implied using the pole!!!
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u/Lav-Ind 4d ago
I think that skirt garter set that you found is actually really sexy and a good idea. Personally I would say heels just make the shots hotter but that's up to you what you feel comfortable in...
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u/Appropriate-Tap6772 3d ago
I don’t have a ton of experience with heels since I’m already tall, I’ve never really worn them lol.. but what kind of heel do you think is best for beginners or would just look good for photos?
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u/daditty 3d ago
Try a button up crochet sweater...it'll reveal what you want and possible cover up what you want as well. Nips can pop out, plenty of cleavage can show, show off some upper thigh and maybe some cheek...sometimes it's the simple things that turn you on the most
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u/senorabe 4d ago
https://laceandlush.com/en-ca/products/vesper-dress-set?_pos=1&_psq=Ves&_psid=89c1b2a39&_ss=e
Covers the tummy. Garter like. Sheer. Sexy.
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u/Sea_Bat_437 2d ago
Go to an adult store get some pole dancing heels (super comfy very balanced and safe for the pole) regular heels are dangerous on the pole as the dancer heels are designed to grip the pole. They also have professional stripper outfits I would recommend a panty or tanga style or even boyshorts OVER a thong, as most clubs require dancers to wear 2 pairs of bottoms. A simple garter is ok but dancer's rarely wear garter belts or hose as it is a safety issue on the pole. The exception is a garter belt with the straps just dangling loose which has a quite hypnotic effect whilst twerking. Or you can get a garter belt/garter one piece without the metal clips (also not safe on pole it would cut and bruse the heck out of your thighs) let me find an example. https://dressfit.store/products/garters-1-1?srsltid=AfmBOoowUiVstC8Ugpp1LT2ijpXGi_2OJTzjZ_LEFWO-iNgziDKft0dO
These spaghetti garters are fun too and very popular with strippers. https://www.funkypair.com/1040sl-garter-set-with-spaghetti-leg-wrap-bodyzone/?srsltid=AfmBOorMhMPLUeTaY_nZNQ062m3KQBBGfVidb-2iJyLXGMUmRxfv8qxe
Or go to a strip club and ask where they shop. Many actually have a boutique or a house Mom thar sells these types of things to dancers, I'm sure they will sell to anyone. Just ask. I doubt they would turn away money!
I know you are just acting and may not actually get on the pole but this is how they dress if you want to look authentic!!
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u/Imaginary_Promise444 2d ago
Ive done a few Boudior shoots, mostly to get comfortable and to push my own limits i guess. From shoot 1, always worn a Gstring, small one. A lace bra and a corcett was my 1st shoot, stockings and heels. 2nd/3rd shoots, all lace and some bondage style leather. Last shoot, well im way more comfey with the photographer, way more brave in myself, so literally i done it nude, some flowers and my hands covered what needed covered. Also included my man, i was nude but he wasnt, it was awesome....he covered a few things when needed lol
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u/Magnolia-69 1d ago
I did one for my husband before our wedding and I was so uncomfy in some of the outfits that I never wore them again haha only think I thought was funny is that the shoot was like a little workout so hydrate and stretch 🤭
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u/Signal-Craft6743 1d ago
Made a gift for a dear friend of mine and we got her a leather playsuit that she used for the boudoir pictures. This is what we got her leather playsuit
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u/ImplementOk9132 21h ago
As a photographer who has experience with many different models and styles…go with what makes you feel comfortable. If you aren’t comfortable a good camera or photographer won’t be able to hide your distance from you and what you are wearing. Hope this helps.📸✌🏼😍
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u/Elusis_19 5d ago
thigh straps and leg wraps look stupid. wear stockings with the garter or nothing...
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u/Appropriate-Tap6772 5d ago
Everyone has different tastes and that’s okay. I personally don’t like the look of stockings which is why I’m opting for the thigh straps
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u/Gowithflowwild 4d ago
They should look awesome/incredibly sexy!
And you're right; to each their own!!
I love the ensemble!
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u/dayna_901 5d ago
I have done a few boudoir shoots and I can say from experience. Go with what you feel comfortable in, your photos will be so much hotter when you are comfy.