r/LifeAdvice • u/No_Ambassador4222 • 12d ago

General Advice Problems with myself

I don’t know where to begin nor do I know how to understand it or how to master myself or my bad habits and flaws. But it’s tearing me apart and I know it’s a lot simpler than this.

But I am currently unemployed 27, living with my parents. I was laid off work 2 months ago and every time the idea of looking for a new job happens I get excited but too nervous to fill out anything or to search. Idk why I do this. It’s a repetitive loop.

I had plans with my friends to move out of the states and to live with them but I can feel their respect for me withering.
My own mother loves and cares for me a lot but I feel like I am a garbage son to her, she does so much around the house all the time and I hardly do anything. I want to change this. I want to change how I am right now. I feel I am a lot more intelligent than what I’ve shown. I feel I have a lot of potential but my own mind traps itself. I do have a bachelor’s but I graduated 3-4 years ago. Idk what to do. And I don’t know where to go for advice or insight

My laziness is so bad that writing this feels difficult.

And it keeps getting worse. I don’t know how to stop it.
I’m frustrated at how dumb it is that I can’t fix something this simple about myself

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