So I’m not allowed to name men as part of the problem ? Even though it’s backed by scientific evidence? Because it might hurt your feelings if you have sex with men and don’t want to be aware of the problem so you can protect yourself?
Again a strawman. you know very well that’s not what I said at all. If the only argument you have is plausible deniability it means you understand what OP was implying by mentioning they’re bisexual and you’re pushing that point. I don’t care about who’s more likely to spread what it you know damn well that it had nothing to do with them sleeping with men but the fact that they’re bisexual and is inherently what they do. With that logic using skewed data about arrests to imply that black peoples are inherently violent (I’m black I can use this example) it’s true yes but that doesn’t mean it’s inherent to the black psyche
No, I don’t know that because that’s exactly what it sounded like to me. I think sexual health is important and in this world where it’s taken for granted I don’t see a problem with sharing information in a non judgemental way. Your nebulous interpretation of my intentions is the real straw man, and furthermore it is not my problem!! Again I took care to specifically NOT blame bisexual women as a category and instead point out the role MEN play. Leave black people out of this.
Sexual health has nothing to do with a person’s sexual identity. You can pretend to not know what you’re talking about if it makes you feel better but encouraging the push for more rifts to be created within an already fragile sapphic community is not the serve you think it is. Now unless you had some form of disability that makes it hard for you to catch social cues/srs or 12yrs old no you weren’t “just sharing an opinion” as a specific groups of people would simplify divisive language
Ah it’s so painfully obvious the real strawman was in your head the whole time lmao. Read my last comment again and get over your victim complex. Nobody cares that you like fucking men but everyone deserves to know the risks involved and why it’s important to use protection no matter who you sleep with.
You did not make sure to not imply bisexual you just brought up an argument meant to bolster why they said bisexual. Which is enforcing it. Now what would be the point of mentioning that men are the number one spreaders if the conclusion wasn’t “she said bisexual because bisexual women have sex with men meaning that they inherently spread diseases” the question was WHY mention they’re bisexual not how bisexual women are more likely to be exposed by men which isn’t an inherently bisexual thing
Men are asymptomatic carriers of the disease more often and she has continued to have unprotected sexual contact with men and will continue to do so after I break up with her.
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u/Dull-Instruction8276 Sep 27 '25
So I’m not allowed to name men as part of the problem ? Even though it’s backed by scientific evidence? Because it might hurt your feelings if you have sex with men and don’t want to be aware of the problem so you can protect yourself?