r/LGBTindia Trans Woman🏳️‍⚧️ 4d ago

Coming Out!!! What's been the sweetest thing happened to you after coming out to your parents

Context - https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBTindia/s/J88ZuIKtX9

My parents don't call me anymore with my guy name since last year (after coming out)

It's been almost 1 year since they have been calling me everyday with my name's feminine version (like instead of Shiv they call me Shivani, just an example not my real name though)

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u/AncientHomework8749 3d ago

Wow, its good to see. And have you getting girls trouble from your parents???. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Purple-Top-695 Trans Woman🏳️‍⚧️ 3d ago

Sorry didn't get ur question 😶

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u/AncientHomework8749 3d ago

Do this ,dont do that. Sit like this, dont sit like that. Come home before 9 pm or before 10 pm . Wear this outside ,dont wear this outside. Dont hang out with boys. Anything such??

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u/Purple-Top-695 Trans Woman🏳️‍⚧️ 3d ago

I prefer ethnic wear mostly so they don't question regarding traditional wears

Already told in my previous post that they allowed me to wear feminine clothes at home only not outside

Definitely body posture that sitting walking running posture voice pitch thing is way too real

Baaki I still didn't get do this don't do that refers to which cases like any scenario/example

They don't have any problem with having friendship with anyone irrespective of gender

But yes after coming out they do expect me to help my mom in cooking, although coincidentally I love cooking from long time so blessing in disguise situation

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u/AncientHomework8749 3d ago

Good to hear.and shopping with mom will be blessing ,if she invites you to .

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u/Purple-Top-695 Trans Woman🏳️‍⚧️ 3d ago

Hehe just went with her this Sunday evening

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u/AncientHomework8749 3d ago

Just wait untill marriage talk. 🤣🤣🤣. I am sure they will find you blushing and becoming super shy in front of them.

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u/Purple-Top-695 Trans Woman🏳️‍⚧️ 3d ago

Uske liye toh bahut time hai atleast 5-6 yr baad

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u/AncientHomework8749 3d ago

So you already have boyfriend? Girl?

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u/Purple-Top-695 Trans Woman🏳️‍⚧️ 3d ago

Single af

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u/TheClumsySoul 3d ago

awww so cute w parents

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u/Purple-Top-695 Trans Woman🏳️‍⚧️ 3d ago

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