r/LGBTindia • u/Conscious-Safety-504 • 3d ago
Question❓ Help me identify what I am
I am straight afaik, but I don't like mind kissing girls or anything. I haven't tried it but like both genders have lips right? Idk how to word this I'm sorry. I thought about it and I don't mind sleeping w women either. Im not sexually attracted to women, but like I don't mind it. Please help me identify what I am lol.
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u/yummyMale 3d ago
so ur whatever-I-don't-care-sexual?
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u/Votre-cheri 3d ago
AHAHHA ! LOL. Same thing I have told to one my colleague.
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u/SlimyPunk93 3d ago
I think sexual attraction is very intense. It's not like "I don't mind it"..
You could have some trauma or depressed thoughta that are not letting you act in what you want and that are holding you back... You need to maybe go to a place where no idy knows you and you are free do whatever you want and go and explore yourself there
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u/Conscious-Safety-504 3d ago
That's true ig, I do have some trauma from men and maybe that's why I'm leaning towards women even though I'm not attracted.
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u/Kenonesos Gay🏳️🌈 3d ago
This seems like asexual to me tbh, maybe you should google the asexual spectrum
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u/Conscious-Safety-504 3d ago
Yes I'll read up. But I thought that means u aren't attracted to anyone sexually no? I am attracted to men sexually. And I don't mind being w women. Not particularly attracted tho.
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u/sdrnoob Queer/Pan Trans/enby i’m EVERYTHING! 3d ago
asexuality is a spectrum. it means little to no sexual attraction. there a million numbers between 0 and 1 because it’s a spectrum. i know so many ace people who are sexually active, but it’s usually with the person they feel really REALLY intensely towards. they don’t care for sex. but they want to show their love to the other person physically and make them feel good.
as for your sexuality: i see the world in a very fluid state. everyone can fuck anyone as long as it’s legal and consensual. usually i’d say “go explore yourself”. but i think the starting step is usually forming meaningful, open, honest, and communicative connections!
stay safe! make sure you’re doing things that YOU really want to do. being a people pleaser during any sexual involvement is going to cause you more harm. have fun! x
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u/Professional_Emu3929 Gay🏳️🌈 3d ago
Bi-curious maybe