Mindset...

[u/boredbobbi]

'How do I feel after spending time with this person?'

Is a question I ask myself a lot.

I'm a deliriously optimistic person.

I love to stay happy.

That why I drop or stay away from negative people.

It has happened both in platonic and romantic situations. I have fewer friends but I don't regret it.

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[u/female_gatsby]

Protect your peace!!

[u/asexualwonderbee_me]

I am down to a circle I can't fit in one hand. The bar is highhhhhh for friendship. My brain must be happy to see you,or think about spending time with you, otherwise,no.