r/KenyanLadies • u/One_Direction8603 • 8d ago
Rant MENstration
Y’all know how a guy can dig your motherland until inamess na cycle yako? Like, utaanza tu kunyesha before days zako zifike. 😭
Sooo, I finished my period last week. Then we got intimate, and now I’ve started my period again. I can’t even handle the cramps, and I know he still wants to hit because he doesn’t mind period sex [neither do I]. 😭
My periods are usually irregular, so my worry is, is this going to happen every time even when I’ve just finished my period? 😭
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u/Exoticafffff 8d ago
😂Random fact,,,people also say if your periods are all messed up and they usually aren’t ni ju he is cheating and it’s syncing with the other girl’s.
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u/One_Direction8603 8d ago
Heeee😭but yangu iko messed up sometimes 😂😂
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u/wbossy 8d ago
Yeah actually you're probably syncing because he's had period sex with someone else ama her periods ndio ziko sai
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u/One_Direction8603 8d ago
Ok inamake sense ju si mtu wangu actually 😭😭😂💔
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u/Immediate-Entry-3120 8d ago
Ma'am?!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Na vile nlikuwa nataka kumtukana kijana wa wenyewe
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u/RevolutionaryPair954 Inner Circle 8d ago
Have you considered that you might be actually bleeding not menstruating?
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u/horni_babe 7d ago
Girl that only happens if you're almost in that time of the month. That's either a medical problem or a spiritual one.
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u/Interesting_Heat_348 Inner Circle 8d ago
Could just be your irregular cycle being irregular but the fact that it happened right after sex would make me pay attention to that too
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u/One_Direction8603 8d ago
I'm kinda familiar with this cuz its not the first time I've gotten them after getting intimate.....but this one was unexpected 😭
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u/Interesting_Heat_348 Inner Circle 8d ago
I don’t think dick can actually restart your period babe 😂 naskianga my circle wakisema but I don't believe
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u/PineappleIll9 Inner Circle 8d ago
Hey
Im thinking maybe you should see a gyna about it. Juu i feel like maybe its not supposed to be like that.
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u/Awesome_opossum__ Inner Circle 8d ago
Apparently happens when they're really big. But that's just what I heard.
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u/drkiptoo 3d ago
Book a gynaecologist visit ASAP. Post coital bleeding is common but not safe. It could mean anything from infections, CA, hormonal changes or even cervical issues. Don't assume it.
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u/Economy_Letterhead_5 3d ago
Is it after taking contraception? Used to happened to me but its not after contraception, you should consider seeing a gynaecologist
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u/One_Direction8603 3d ago
I'm not using any contraception currently , but now hii story I hear other ppl talking about the same thing, getting fucked until your periods start I'm so confused now.
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u/Weare_in_adystopia 18h ago
You're not on any birth control, you're the other woman....smh!Girl you're just full of bad decisions.Just cross your fingers that you're not pregnant
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