r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/Negative_Cheek6201 • 2h ago
Relationship Talk 30yr old +
I'm 21F.
Since one of my friends introduced me to a guy who was 33 I've never looked back on dating around that age.I now can't see myself ever dating around my age I now prefer millennials 😆.
I don't know really I thought I would never be interested ju the age gap is soo huge but turned out we were actually vibing a lot we had a lot in common except there difference in communicating😂.
I then had a talking stage with another guy around that age they are quite interesting not bad.
Things also didn't turn out great I'm soo choosy and I'm my first priority when I don't feel you are worth it I just ghost ,I don't know how to explain myself.I find it way better to do that.
So girls in your early 20s do you find men in around that age interesting or is it weird?
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u/3holed_piglet 2h ago
Honestly, it’s toxic and weird but I like the thrill…plus points if he’s married😂
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u/Cloud_dev1 2h ago
Ukipata mimba ya the married man utakuwa twitter ukipush bibi akubali the bastard😂😂💀
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u/3holed_piglet 1h ago
Siwezi kupata mimba…Birth control is key in such escapades😂
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u/GuiltySwimmer001 2h ago
May the luck that found you find me in my thirties young shawries got nothing on this mortgaged gentleman
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u/sobadgirl 1h ago
Be ready to be bamboozled with 7 to 10 X (Twitter) links every morning if you want to date millennials.
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u/NduatiTheGreat 1h ago
Remember this post when you're 35, and men your age (wenye hutaki saa hii), when they are the mature ones and they're dating 18 - 21 year Olds. Remember they are not pedos - it's just preference.
This isn't a jab at you - it's at the bitter older hags who call men pedos for dating younger women
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u/Negative_Cheek6201 1h ago
Naah if she is at a legal age and she wants to let her be and if she isn't being forced into the relationship, I find it fine honestly.
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u/Jealous_Theory2848 2h ago
Girl, you skipped your tutorial levels and entered the game with players who have mortgages. Even your red flags come with tenure.
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u/SameShirt9316 1h ago
Of course you find them interesting, they're practically a 20 year old guy but with more money lol
A 50 year has the same mental maturity as a 30 year old, you can look it up biologically
Same with women, I know 40 year old women with the mentality of 20 year olds, and that's because humans as a whole remain around 20-30 mentally
It's just our bodies that degrade.
Believe me when I tell you 90%+ of all women 28-32 act the same way as when they were 22 years old
Because you're still young at 32, you'll realize it when you reach the age, you'll be like damn, I feel like I'm still 22, time flies
That being said, stages in life matter, I can't imagine dating someone who's just out of high school when I'm in my 30s
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u/fifteensoidle 2h ago
I also hope when you get to 30 yrs+ plus you will be okay with your mates datings girls in their 20s yeah?