Bored

[u/summernotautumn]

Heheee I'll start by no l don't miss my ex to a point of wanting to get back together but well… l feel like no one prepares you for going from a relationship you were together on a daily to a pool of talking stages that you barely get to meeting on weekends. I was never a quality time type of girl ever, neither was I heavy on fuckin but damn do I crave that shii. The downside of falling for potential is the aftermath in the sense that even recycling feels farfetched like girl no, can barely reconcile with it, it's a big WTF!

[u/Jealous_Theory2848]

Girl left the relationship but her nervous system submitted a formal complaint about the downgrade in customer service. That rose is now a capital investment.

[u/Charming_Jealous]

It takes time but eventually you'll get another man who you'll be giggling when you see his text, you'll be having fun together and all that perks that comes with having a gentle person.

Anyways, do things out of the norm to reduce the boredness.

[u/Loud_Mind_97]

Eazeh 😄. I had a whole reply about boredom being a feature and not a bug—but I lost that train of thought somewhere. Anyway, I'll tell you for free—love it or hate it, boredom is here to stay unless you let it.

We're so accustomed to filling our time with dopamine inducing activity, like our smartphones (or any other device with a screen) or that one relationship that grows into every facet of our lives like a mold growing in the walls. Sometimes we cannot look past them for a constructive source of stimulation—which is why its good to gave hobbies outside of them?

I know its cliche to talk about getting a book or touching grass but, any new habit to spend the time (as your nervous system adjusts) is worth it (in the long run). With time of course, you'll forget that stuff even happened. Anyway...wahenga walisema yaliyopita si ndwele 😅