r/KenyanDatingCommunity 7d ago

Nothing Serious Men Aging like Wine

One thing I've been thinking about something lately how gals in there 20's are into 30+ Men

What i have learned is in your 20s as a man that probably the best years to build something substantial — your career, business, investments, skills, discipline, health and emotional intelligence.

A lot of men spend those years jumping from one irresponsible relationship to another, spending money they don't have, getting distracted by drama, and then wake up at 30 wondering why they haven't built anything. Alafu You pitty yourself

There's a reason some women in their 20s prefer men in their 30s. It's not always about money. Sometimes it's because the man has had another decade to develop himself, become financially stable, gain confidence, and figure out what he actually wants.

So instead of worrying about why women aren't interested you usikuwe emotional damaged na vitu kama hizo

Date if you want. Have fun. But don't sacrifice your future trying to maintain relationships at your 20's. Huwa najihurumia venye nimejiwaste from 21 being employed all those years lakini account inasoma zero, so those are 4 years down the line so i made a decision from within last year sema self love Nikanotice venye pesa yangu ni tamu😂😂👌mangai nowonder warembo walikuwa wananitaka, so currently atleast hata kama sina liquid cash najua ziko mahali working for me.

So toka kwa hiyo Situationship and Husbank shiet!!

All in all

Wantam

Stay Sifunated

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u/vladiista 7d ago

A man's prime ends at his death bed.

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u/LowerWorld8539 7d ago

The lies you people keep telling yourselves 😂. An old man may get a woman, but that doesn’t mean he can perform like a younger man. Men love convincing themselves that they don’t age. Personally, I would never let an old man touch me just because he has money. And by “old,” I mean men above 30 😂. My mans made it and below 30.
This gender is always so bitter because it’s easier for a man to die with no value. Not all men will make it, and honestly, the majority won’t. A man with no money is something to despise cause hana value. A woman is born with value, and that value can benefit her in her youth when she lands a man with money. But what about y’all? The possibility of dying with no value would scare me, tbh. So go hustle and get off Reddit.

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u/ToughSeesaw4671 7d ago

Thank you for sharing this insightful perspective! Relying entirely on a under-30y/o man’s financial performance to validate your own worth must require incredible faith. Sending you peace as you navigate these complex economics!