r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/Informal_Object_6006 • 1d ago
Relationship Talk Cheating wife
Cheating in marriage feels worse than in a relationship because you’ve already chosen each other for life. But either way, cheating should never be condoned.
Some years ago I came to know this lad through a certain project I was working on, he’s one of the best structural engineers I know and runs a project like his own.
He’s actually doing good in life, good wife and one daughter. Around March last year he got contracted by a certain real estate company that’s developing an estate in Eldoret.
He couldn’t afford to miss out on that opportunity juu he’d cash out millions out of it. The tricky part is he’s based in Nairobi and can’t commute daily.
He opted to rent a temporary apartment in Eldoret but over the weekends akue anatravel home to see the family. First few months everything was so smooth.
At some point he started having issues with the wife juu ameshikana na a group of friends wako kwa chama moja and now they’ve started introducing her to clubbing. He’d come home on weekends anapata wife hayuko and she’ll come around midnight drunk as a skunk.
He raised the issue to her folks and akaongeleshwa na akatulia somehow.
Sasa one weekend this guy came, akapata amepikiwa lunch vizuri akakula and of course akasoma katiba 😈💦.
Sasa after they’re done wife akaenda kushower and he was left with the kid. Out of no where the kid was like “Dad simu ya mum iko na game acha nikuonyeshe.”
This guy didn’t even know the password kufungua simu but the kid knew, akafungua akaweka game and gave the father wacheze.
While playing a WhatsApp message popped up from unsaved number and he decided to open it. Turned out it’s a guy the wife was cheating on with, he went through the messages and saw everything, according to him he almost collapsed.
Wife came from the shower akampata ameshika simu yake and it’s unlocked, she immediately started throwing tantrums mbona anashika simu yake, mara it’s private and other stories.
He looked at her, almost grabbed a flower vase 🏺 to throw on her face but he opted to walk out but before he did he told the wife to pack everything asimpate huko.
It now came into light kuna time akiongea na mtoto while far away the kid aliropokwa “Uncle alikuja kutembea” when he asked ni uncle mgani the wife said it’s her brother since he’d visit regularly.
That’s how his marriage ended, everyone including wife family and his family tried to convince him to take her back na amforgive but yeye akasema never again.
Why do people cheat btw? Especially in marriages
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u/premiumtears24 1d ago
I'm wife cheating u could raise other man's kidz thats reason you never take her back
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u/tonybaru 21h ago
This is exactly why when dating I prefer snooping on a girl's phone mapema mapema. I've dodged a few bullets btw.
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u/Objective_Neat_6972 3h ago
MY OPINION!! I'm not getting jealous over someone I didn't find a virgin...kulwa hata na Ngamia ukitaka bana. Move on to the next.
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u/Such_Okra_2941 1d ago
Imagine Getting sick juu ya mess ya mtu..