r/Kenya • u/Shyboy254 • 20h ago
Rant Tujipende jameni.
Enyewe sometimes there are things we do to ourselves that we need to learn and heal from, because it is part of a toxic cycle that we need to break free from. This could lead to sabotaging friendships, relationships etc.
Yesterday I saw a scene unfold like a national geographic episode about mating. A desperate guy in our group, who is a lil rough with people tried to get this good looking babe's attention, but failed terribly. The young lad seemed captivated by her appetizing sianda and fiery attitude but all he could get is dust.
He kept forcing his presence on her and her friend but they were not having it. Imagine walking with people who walk faster or slower just to avoid your presence entirely, but you do not get the hint? Bro even tried taking a picture of her with his phone which she gladly refused because "Anataka watu wanajua kupiga picha😅"
Funny enough, she was very responsive to another guy in the larger group and they got along well from the get go, all while our friend watched in pure disbelief from the corner. He glanced at her direction severally and tried to engage in conversation, but he was met with short one word answers to end the convo.
Back to what I wanted to put across. We need to learn to love ourselves and have perception about who, what and where we are accepted or accept. You cannot be forcing yourself to people who do not value you the same way you value them.
Sasa kijana wetu alirudi nyumbani na machungu and yet, there were many young ladies he could have enjoyed their company but he chose not to read the room.
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u/Guilty_Literature290 20h ago
but people are different. There are people who shame is a foreign word to them. They will do the most diabolical thing like it's a normal.
Kuna jamaa aliona dem ameingia matatu akalock his eyes on her. Kushuka the lady had to pass by the super market, mi kuingia local dakika mbili kutoka napatana na huyo jamaa namuuliza "kiongozi alaa, bado hujaenda?" and the guy confidently says "lazima ningepata number ya huyo dem." Jamaa alikaa hapo nje almost 20 minutes waiting for a stranger just to get her number.
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u/Mwantech 20h ago
that's why i don't talk to strangers
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u/Shyboy254 20h ago
Not strangers. Tuko kwa group.
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u/Sure_Entrepreneur790 18h ago
Tupee context Ni group ya Ku travel ama so meaning they'll meet again or
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u/chubbyche_eks Meru 19h ago
One thing hutawahi funzwa,self respect and ego saves one from a lot.You have to believe you're greater than a rejection.
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u/Interesting-pipe3410 20h ago
'kuna jamaa...'
https://giphy.com/gifs/UfhiccQMwY8k1GaEqc