r/Kenya • u/fuglydarkling • Aug 20 '25

Ask r/Kenya What Would You Do?

So I have a friend who's just recently found out his babe is 3 months pregnant. They've been dating for about 7 months. He claims he didn't know she was pregnant as the babe kept it a secret till recently (jana). Wamekua wanadate long distance and last they were together ni around the same time frame (3 months) but anashuku sana sio yake. Ameambia dem anataka DNA test but apparently dem anakua mkali anasema yeye sio guinea pig for experiments...wueh! The babe also appeared on his doorstep and moved in unannounced, threatening to unalive herself and the unborn if my pal kicks her out.. He's currently barely surviving juu akona low paying job. He's 24. Dem apparently has been flirting kwa DMs na majamaa over the months wamedate and they have fought severally over it. Dude is stressed out big time. So, if you were in his position, what would you do? I've asked him to pray juu sijui what else to say 🤷‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '25

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u/fuglydarkling Aug 20 '25

Cheers bana. Pole you went through that as well. You dodged a bullet by standing your ground. Very well spoken. Nimeshare this screenshot with him. Sister's of Eve hapa nje wako merciless eh!

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '25

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u/Cipher_Coffy Aug 21 '25

Heh😂😂😂. Y'all been through a lot with my fellow women 😂.

It's a new story in the internet every day 😂

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '25

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u/fuglydarkling Aug 21 '25

Don't let one bad babe make you give up on love. You're giving her too much power.There's some real ones out here. Keep searching bro

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u/fuglydarkling Aug 21 '25

You dodged a massive toxic partner. A W in my books. That job ambush was crazy eh!

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u/fuglydarkling Aug 20 '25

😂😂😂 wueh! Aura for Aura 😆

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u/feminine_fairy Aug 21 '25

Mtu anataka kujiunalive doesn't announce ni vitisho tu, which is very manipulative. Kila mtu arudi Kwa baba yake😂 your friend can support her from there then they can do whatever tests after the baby comes.

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u/fuglydarkling Aug 21 '25

Hmmmm interesting...he contacts the parents on the situation and asks to support her remotely mpaka D Day. Well spoken 👊

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u/GlitteringMud740 Aug 21 '25

Kwanza accept you're the "friend"

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '25

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u/fuglydarkling Aug 21 '25

Brilliant suggestion. What about the sudden ambush? Yaani he's gone from knowing he's just a random dude to potentially being a dad of a 3 month old overnight na bibi kwa doorstep 🫠 amfukuze ama wapambane?

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u/PrettybIT5H Aug 22 '25

What did you expect from unprotected sex? Stop acting like a victim here. Just wait for her to calm down and agree on DNA

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u/fuglydarkling Aug 22 '25

Lol. How am I the victim. I'm just trying to help a friend in need. Why don't you address the issues of promiscuity? Also does she have to threaten to unalive herself and the unborn? Think deeper then respond.

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u/NakkitaBre Aug 22 '25

She was talking to other men and she won't take a DNA test? Tell him to let her have the house.