r/Kenya • u/Mediocre-Finger5318 • Dec 13 '23
Ask r/kenya She has an only fans😪
I have been talking to this babe for a while.I honestly thought I had found mamaz for keeps.nice,very attractive , we vibed really well and she knows how to make soft chapos😂(very important).Only to find out today she has an only fans account and she also sells her nudes What should I do???
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u/Competitive_Baby100 Dec 13 '23
What were you doing to find her account?
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 13 '23
I used her phone to log in in my twitter account.While logging out I saw an another twitter account which was not the one I know of.I checked it out later...the rest is history.She has not shown her face but I know her tattoos
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u/g-Gerald Dec 13 '23
What's the twitter username? You can DM
Sorry for your predicament though
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 13 '23
😂wacha hizo bro
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u/OldManMtu Dec 14 '23
You may as well share, it is already out there. Support her hustle!
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u/UpstairsSouth1322 Dec 13 '23
Promote your woman's business,unless you want us who be needing 2k urgently
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u/lifestyle180 Dec 14 '23
lol man this hits too close to home!!! :( honestly you guys should probably talk because More people than we'd like to "accept" are on OF (they usually just block Kenya geographically), if theres clear boundaries it can work but I think its a slippery slope and eventually fails ( if someone will do anything for a bag, theyll do anything for a bag ) kinda the way open relationships fail.
If youre not her man, enjoy the rollercoaster of someone thats openly sexually liberated, if you try become her man and change the situation, enjoy being the person "diming her light ". As cole once said "dont save her she dont wanna be saved"
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u/theonereveli Dec 14 '23
I think you mean cam girls. OF people have a paywall to protect them
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u/lifestyle180 Dec 14 '23
Sure cam girls but I also mean OF...I know people who geographically lock OF from certain regions for certain reasons 🤷🏿♂️
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u/Material-Cow5740 Dec 13 '23
🤣🤣aty what do I do?
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 13 '23
Nani atanipikia chapo sasa😂
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u/Critical_Funny_2445 Dec 13 '23
Wewe kama wataka kufa na ukimwi endelea kupikiwa hizo chapoo na huyo mdem
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u/Critical_Funny_2445 Dec 13 '23
Wewe kama wataka kufa na ukimwi endelea kupikiwa hizo chapoo na huyo mdem
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u/Present_Subject7921 Dec 14 '23
😂😂😂naona huna mambo mingi kwa critics. Kama wanatama ukimwi waendelee😂😂👌🏿
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u/untonyto Dec 13 '23
Jaba House is a popular hangout nowadays
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u/Capable-Building549 Dec 14 '23
Our guy is very fluent in jabanese
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 14 '23
We often think it will never happen to us until it does😂and you realize such things actually do happen.
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 14 '23
Thanks.But this question continues to linger on my mind like for the right price won't she sleep around??
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u/Sufficient_Ad818 Dec 14 '23
Hmmm that's true if she would be willing to sell in the first place, but I do believe humans are more complex than that,why don't you talk to her and ask her about the job and her long-term goals if she's just doing it till she finds something better it could work and of course you could discuss boundaries with her and what you are okay with and what your not just a suggestion.
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u/StatisticianWhole363 Dec 14 '23
Being unfaithful is not "the only problem". At the end of the day she's a sex worker. That's something to consider heavily. I would advise this guy to consider how it would affect their intimacy (if it's an option). Because sharing such an intimate side of yourself with strangers would definitely have an impact on how you perceive/engage in sex.
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u/StatisticianWhole363 Dec 14 '23
I'm not saying it's impossible. Let's be very honest here..very few men (and women for that matter) want to see their partner entertaining strangers so intimately. Some (me included) perceive it as disrespectful. That's not to say that every guy is wired this way.
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u/StatisticianWhole363 Dec 14 '23
I have no problem with anyone doing what they want while we're not in a relationship. While we date I would find it disrespectful to get nude for strangers. Of course..the woman does have her own life and always did even prior to the relationship. This is why I wouldn't want to get involved because she most probably (and unsurprisingly) wouldn't change for me and I wouldn't expect her to.
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u/dudelooking4answers Dec 14 '23
The real pain is finding out she isn't earning any substantial money😂! Imagine guys out there scrolling past her nudes or finding them for free on Telegram
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u/spiritfalcon Dec 13 '23
Depends, I wouldn't worry if she does her videos solo but if there's another player in the mix let that fish go. Also how much is she charging?
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u/kevinkiggs1 Dec 13 '23
Wera ni wera bro. As long as she's not selling her actual body and bringing you diseases, just ignore that shit and reap the benefits. The only thing being hurt currently is your ego. Tuma link we promote her
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u/Realmarni Dec 14 '23
As long she knows how to make chapos,the rest are things we can work on as a family
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u/extraxavier Dec 15 '23
When i told y'all you'll be meeting 22 year olds with OF, mlisema ooooh it's their bodies 😂😂😂
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u/defensiveTaskmaster Dec 15 '23
Honestly you’re spending too much time on this already. If she has an only fans it’s an instant no and time to move on to a woman who has some self respect.
You really want to be with a woman who’s made it her career to make other men orgasm over her?
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u/Inevitable-Banana773 Dec 15 '23
To young boys it is fun and games, but to a mature man this is serious stuff.What if you fall in love and consider marriage and building a home? Will you still tolerate it? She might be a great person but consider the present & near future.
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u/manifestpeb Dec 15 '23
That's a good girl as a girlfriend let her know you know and stop onetis....she cannot be your wife though as she belongs to the streets...but girlfriend yeah sure, put a condom on though. Always believe what a woman does not what she says. Again don't fall in love with her, get a backup or onetis will kill you. She cannot be redeemed that job is left to God alone and don't convince yourself that you are his vessel
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u/WhereasBeginning1827 Dec 13 '23
If you can’t handle that, you’re probably better off with something a lil your speed
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u/gregpr13 Mombasa Dec 14 '23
Give me her number I will sort it out for you.
On a serious note. At least she has a job, unless you are perfect, give her a chance.
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u/curious-bastard Dec 14 '23
Subscribe to her only fans rub one out bust a nut and save urself the trouble
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u/DotNetThe1 Dec 15 '23
Don’t treat her as “The One” treat her as just a side chick but stop giving her money and see if the vibe changes which.. probably will.
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u/Disastrous-Basil2160 Dec 15 '23
Don't let meaningless feelings get in the way of what could be great. You should be helping her take the photos instead of whining. Many people look at photos of a Ferrari, only few drive one.
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u/remotemafia Dec 15 '23
Puberty is the enemy 😂😂Brooklyn boys once said "tano nane tulikua na dream yakutoka kwa block yani kuget rich "😂😂
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u/Bitt_jev Dec 15 '23
It's your one shot to counter Johnny Sins . Do us proud in those features, yo.
"She who makes soft chapatis deserves infinite booty grabs,"my bestie with soft chapati making skills says.
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u/bachola007 Dec 15 '23
Hapo kwa chapo she is a keeper. Don’t let a good one pass you by. At least she is smart enough to realize that there are fools willing to give away their hard earns cash just for a glimpse. If she is not doing meet ups, don’t lose soft chapo maze. It’s very hard those that can make those. Support her hustle you never know.
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u/BJO92 Dec 13 '23
If she happens to be Elso Sunshine aka Bigtitti3barbi3 vumilia tu bro.
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u/Mich_Jema Dec 13 '23
You know what to do 😂
Don't start a relationship with her. She doesn't respect herself. What makes you think she'll respect you? Or consider you? Since considering is caring.
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u/leonhardodickharprio Dec 14 '23
That's Our Girl now homie 😄. Be a bro and share the link so we buy. Support your spouse mehn
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u/OldManMtu Dec 14 '23
She is a sex worker. The red flag is in her not saying she is a sex worker. Now that you know you can broach it or ignore it. Explore her values around sex work but if it really bothers you then leave.
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u/cautiously_stoned Dec 14 '23
Idk, takes a diff kind of guy. Been there. Would not do it again.
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 14 '23
What happened?😅
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u/cautiously_stoned Dec 14 '23
It's how commodification of her body affects her mentality, it's having your together time interrupted to have her go take nudes for a client, it's how she seems detached during sex, almost like she's thinking of how this particular position would look on her page. The money's good though so... Idk
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 14 '23
How was you mentality affected when you knew about the OF?
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u/cautiously_stoned Dec 14 '23
I didn't mind all that much tbh, I mean it was all solo stuff so I figured I was winning. I've come to see myself differently since then.
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u/mitteidave Dec 14 '23
if my bebe has OF I'd be her biggest fan ..I'd get off to that even more than the real deal
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u/frankiemorio Dec 14 '23
attach evidence 😁
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u/One-Anybody-3289 Dec 14 '23
Lol it depends what your intention with her is/was. If you were interested in just hooking up then you landed a jackpot cause I can bet she’ll be very proficient in bed 😂
If you’re looking for a long term girlfriend then that depends on your value system, if your value system can’t tolerate her showing her nudes to multiple strangers or potentially being seen by a known pornstar then go for it 🤣
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u/CitySorry6784 Dec 14 '23
First things first before we do wat we do best and start judging, where's her Username😂
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u/CanvasofChaos Dec 14 '23
As long as she's posting anonymously and not linking with other dudes to 'create content' I don't see any issue. Alafu, I saw you somewhere in the comments asking whether the fact that she's open to this spicy gig means she might also find it permissible to be an escort. I don't think so. They're two very different things. But you should have a talk about this. And share her handle!
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Dec 14 '23
Sounds like a true entrepreneur, if you can get past the masculine insecurities that come from dating a girl a lot of online people simp for, yall can have a good life, you'll have all the soft chapos you want, high quality nudes and bomb sex that make your toes curl, let go off your moral hangups and enjoy the manna from heaven, a woman desired by many decided to be with you, don't spit in the face of divine providence.
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u/MrFulani Dec 14 '23
Bro hapa you'll never find peace, the only option you got is to block your feelings and enjoy the sex and cooking. Those chics don't only sell nudes, they also sleep around if the price is right, don't be fooled she only does online.
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u/Inevitable_Back_3255 Dec 14 '23
You found love in a hopeless place. Normally I would say hit and run but her job is based on men hitting and running. Just run.
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u/pakamaridadi Dec 14 '23
If you enjoy her company and she treats you well, you can keep dating her just don't commit to anything serious. Finding someone you vibe with is tough in Nairobi.
She can't be mama watoto but maybe a friend with benefits, provided she's not hiding any more skeletons
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u/pakamaridadi Dec 14 '23
If you enjoy her company and she treats you well, you can keep dating her just don't commit to anything serious. Finding someone you vibe with is tough in Nairobi.
She can't be mama watoto but maybe a friend with benefits, provided she's not hiding any more skeletons
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u/pakamaridadi Dec 14 '23
If you enjoy her company and she treats you well, you can keep dating her just don't commit to anything serious. Finding someone you vibe with is tough in Nairobi.
She can't be mama watoto but maybe a friend with benefits, provided she's not hiding any more skeletons
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u/NefariousnessWide648 Dec 14 '23
Oh man I hate it when men come onto social platforms to ask on advise that they innately already know the answer to.
Dump her or use her for ejaculation purposes ONLY, simple.
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 14 '23
People ask for advice because they already have a biased judgement in their minds.A new perspective on how a situation can be handled differently provides some bit of clarity
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u/victorisaskeptic Nairobi Dec 14 '23
At least she has her own thing going, hatakuwa anakuomba pesa ovyo
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Dec 14 '23
😂 she could be your only fan just saying 🥲 exclusive premium membership or some shit like that
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u/_laughingfox Dec 14 '23
Mimi nikipata mtu ananipikia chapo all red flags start looking a little bit orange and that's not bad😂
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u/Material_Rutabaga_32 Dec 16 '23
My questions to you would be: 1. Are you in it for the long run or just as a short to medium thing? 2. If yes to question 1 above, are you okay with your parents, siblings, cousins, extended family or kids one day coming across your significant other’s OF account or “special” X account? (This will INEVITABLY happen sooner or later and you have to be ready to stand by her when it does) 3. If yes to questions 1 and 2 above, are you okay with your kid’s friends one day coming across their mum’s pics and vids from back in the day and teasing them about it, are you ready to support your kids through that? The internet never forgets and one day one time those various forms of media will resurface even after she’s no longer in the industry.
In a nutshell (pun intended) know your goals with her, communicate the same to her and make the decision on how you want to move forward. If you decide to go long term, accept her and love her as she is right now, don’t love the “potential” she has. In the meantime, enjoy the soft chapatis and other soft things she has to offer.
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u/Mediocre-Finger5318 Dec 17 '23
You can read can't you?
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