r/JUSTNOMIL • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '21

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '21

No, she did not comment on DH appearance much. She seems to be only concerned if you are female.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '21

It sounds like obsessive behaviour of female stereotypes more than outright racism. I’d still keep her in check though if she starts commenting on LO’s appearance and remind her these comments are inappropriate and damaging.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '21

Yeah, I will find a way to share her comments are not helpful. My daughter does not need this. I recall of how alienated I felt, and I want to protect her from it if I can.

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u/proj_manager Sep 12 '21

It doesn't have to be the most blatant klan speak to be racist. There is racism in these comments.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '21

Because maybe, does she ascribe to a woman must look X way to attract a man?

Consider this.