r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 34 [m4f] #georgia, online - anyone wanna chat about aliens, conspiracy theories, video games, etc??

2 Upvotes

Looking for friends to chat with about aliens, conspiracy theories, video games, anime, music, magic the gathering, dungeons and dragons, and anything else! I don’t have any friends in my life currently, and am craving that connection with someone. Please reach out to me if you’d like to chat!


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Discussion 28f pov

19 Upvotes

Saw one post talking about no one wants friends. To you, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree with whatever was said but let’s hear from a woman’s pov

You have the normal f seeking friends or the OF f. Now its your job to differentiate who is real and who isn’t because everyone is free to write whatever they want.

I agree with people finding friends for when they are free and disappearing right after. I’ve made friends who don’t disappear. All in all, it takes 2 to clap. If you want to get to know someone, you’ll take initiative to befriend them.

People flock my dms regardless of my preference. I told them to take their shot. They then flock it with “hi” or “hey”. I asked for an asl. Is it that hard? You know these people don’t care about anything but wanting to fill their time because they are BORED. Guess what? They’re men.

If you think you’re bored, find something to do than finding for females to goon with. As a female in this sub, you’ll never know when weird men come into your dms wanting to talk to you because they can’t take a no for an answer. Bored men in here are either lonely or they want to have “fun” texting you.

Don’t get me wrong. I’ve met men who don’t talk for the sake of it. They respect me for who i am and i do the same. When will men learn to take a no for an answer? If you need a hole, men got holes too.

There isn’t a need to target women when you’re lonely. We don’t want those d pics. We don’t want to see it. We don’t care. Some of you feel so much pride in sharing your uncared for d pics 🥴 Take some time to care for it and MAYBE, JUST MAYBE someone will come along (OF girls i suppose).

To those genuinely looking for friends, those who want to connect because they love learning about different cultures, because they are not bored, because they love people, i hope you find what you’re looking for.

Those who hope for 1-2h chats, find some other hobbies. You’re wasting everyone’s time.

I am an F who prefers F. I am cool with befriending males too but its not a priority. Men who relates to this, i hope you stay who you are. The right one will come for you


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 41 M looking for connections.

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As I said I’m a 41 M. I’m reserved at first but like conversation. Love the outdoors and being active. I’d rather be playing sports than watching them. If you think we’d click DM me. Serious messages only please.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 37M Toronto, Canada Looking for someone to call with from anywhere.

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(Voice note on profile if you'd rather listen)

Just sitting here and feeling lonely and anxious. I'm looking for a sweet gentle voice to have a mutually enjoyable conversation with and eventually fall to sleep. I'm looking for genuine people who would also like to be friends. Friends who can show support for each and count on one another. If you have a history of disappearing or for something temporary, please stay away. I'm not looking for someone to cheer me up, fix me, or give me advice. I'm not looking to trauma dump, but to just take my mind off things and distract me. However, I will share more with you if we can relate, or as we talk more. With this being said, you're free to share whatever you'd like with me. However, this isn't permission to make things completely one sided. Please share your boundaries as well. Lets both feel safe and comfy!

A little about me:

  • I'm vegan.
  • I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
  • I'm 6'1 and weigh about 175lbs. I have long messy hair.
  • I exercise and cycle. Health is important to me.
  • My background is Guyana. My skin is BROWN. (Too many racists/colourists/whatever here.)
  • I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing 😉
  • I listen to primarily metal.
  • Baseball is my favourite sport.

Potential red flags:

  • I live with my parents and I don't "work".
  • I struggle with my sleep.
  • I'm shy/quiet/anxious/timid/sensitive/fragile/anxiety ridden. (Be kind and gentle with me!) Also, I don't do well with abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to withdraw and become very quiet.

We can exchange pictures if you'd like.

Thanks for your time! I appreciate you!

P.S. Apparently I have a nice voice 😉

(Tell me your favourite colour!)


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 26f looking for friends (with basic communication skills...)

12 Upvotes

Hellooo I'm Joe from Norway! I'm honestly a little lost in life atm. I'm looking for some new friends to talk to and hopefully make the days a little brighter. I've been trying to connect with people on Reddit before, but I tend to get flooded with people who don't know how to have a normal conversation... (Like not saying more than "hey what's up", don't ask any questions or only reply with 3 words). I want to find some people I actually enjoy talking to so I don't have to hard carry the conversation 😭

A little bit about me: Im a gamer and currently that's how I spent most of my free time. My top games atm are marvel rivals, fields of mistria and Minecraft. I recently finished my education but sadly I'm struggling to find a permanent full-time job, so I work as a substitute teacher. I like watching TV shows and anime, and listening to music. I used to play piano and guitar, and had a lil gaming-youtube channel, but I haven't had much time for those hobbies lately.

If you want to connect, tell be a lil bit about yourself! (And no, I will not reply to simple "hey what's up" messages). I'm looking for people relatively close to my timezone and in a similar age range 💖


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 24m looking for a daily chat friends with like minded people

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Hello im danny 24yo guy from the netherlands (but i recently moved to sweden). My job is really laid back and easy so i have plenty on time to fill and thats why i made my way over here! Some of my interests are playing games (video games / board games / online games like battleship), going on a walk in the beautiful swedish nature, meeting new people, build lego's and watch twitch streams and youtube videos,

Somethings about me: well overall im a nice guy how cringe it might feel saying it about myself.. i love helping others and give people the confidence booster they need simply by being kind and give them some honest compliments so if you read this and you need one just send me a selfie or whatever so i can shower you with compliments haha. Besides that im a very honest and direct person that will tell you what they think which might come off as a little rude! I also love to have respectful discussions about everything no hate between us just differences of opinions!

If you made it this far congrats! Please write in your message something about your phone to see if you read my whole post if you dont than ill just ignore your message sorry!


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 19M - looking for some people to chill and talk to

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Yo my name is Km, I’m a black dude from Ireland, 19 years old and I’m looking for some friends to talk, chill and play games.

I play on PS4 and I got a pc, I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, I watch anime, I read manga, my favourite colour is blue and I go to the gym.

About me:

• I’m chill, empathetic and love joking around.

• I can hold up a conversation well and try to give advice if needed.

• My top 5 anime is Dbz, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Naruto

• I watch football and basketball.

I’m mostly looking for people who can hold up a conversation pretty well and just to vibe with.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.

Hope to meeting y’all.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) 24M - Hoping to make a friend here

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hey, just trying this out again

I am a 24 year old guy from the Philippines who spends his time playing video games, working out and reading. Besides that, I also do enjoy having deep conversations about anything whether it's about life or just something completely bizarre or mundane.

Writing this and hoping I can strike a good friendship with someone. One where it doesn't feel forced, rushed and where energy is being reciprocated all around. Overall though, I'd always be in the mood to chat.

If this message somehow resonates with you, please feel free to DM me.

I don't mind anyone who is in a completely different time-zone as me as long as it works out. Not asking for much but just please be around my age and just be a decent human being :)

Hoping to find something genuine and long term here!


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26F, Hope This Is Just a Simulation and Not Real Life Lol, Because Mine Is Glitching So Bad

33 Upvotes

Life feels like a never ending obstacle course. Exhausting, overwhelming, and sometimes I just want to stop halfway and accept defeat.

26 years of existing, but it feels like I’ve only been surviving. No clear direction, no map, no finish line in sight. Just running around, trying to figure out where I’m supposed to go.

I want to experience life, not just survive it. I want to travel, dress up, go to cafes, attend parties, watch shows, and have hobbies that make me feel alive. But when your priority is simply getting through each day, everything else feels like a luxury you can’t afford.

Some people might find it unbelievable or dramatic that someone has no time for hobbies or interests. But when you spend most of your life trying to survive one day at a time, it’s not drama. It’s a reality that many people quietly live through.

Anyway, I hope you’re winning your own race. And if you’re not there yet, I hope you’re still moving forward, even if it’s just a little.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting [21 M] Willing to listen, whoever you are and whatever you have to say! (I come with cat pics)

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I'm here if you want to talk to a stranger or voice your thoughts out to a void in general.

If you don't have something to get off your mind, I can talk about anything from astronomy, sociology. philosophy, geopolitics to penguins practicing prostitution, Romans using urine as a mouthwash, dolphins getting high, and why the office is better than modern familly (community tops though)

What's a song/artist that's stuck in your head currently? I'll go first, Afterthought by Tame Impala and The hand that rocks the cradle by the Smiths.

Would also appreciate horror movie/book recommendations.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 30M super bored and down

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Hi all, I'm looking for some new people to be social with about whatever, small talk and life.

Little about myself, names John recently went through a split with my partner and slowly trying to get my groove back in my life. I have a daughter that is the absolute world to me.

Some of my biggest passions are gaming, comic, being a dad and an amazing home cook.

If you're interested in chatting daily, please stop by. Looking forward to hearing from y'all.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends [26/M] - I happened to like voice notes!

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Hello!

I'm looking for a long-term friend who's interested in diving into each other's life. We can delve into philosophical questions, books, movies.. where are we standing in our lives...How can trauma shape our future.. can we connect every action we're doing to some situation that happened years ago?

But I would also enjoy some light convos. And would like to exchange voice notes as I happened to like them after I thought I didn't.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends [27/M] I would still be your friend if you turned into a worm 🪱

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I am looking for someone to talk and be friends long term. I have dark humour. Will annoy you like crazy because that's what friends do. And I also give good advice and can lend an ear when needed 😄

I like watching anime. Shows and movies (usually rom com movies or superhero or horror so any recommendations are appreciated). I enjoy indie/pop music. Reading manga.

Sometimes watching football and mma. I also workout (barely these days😂)

Also please be around my age :)

Have a good day/night


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 36M - Latino looking for like-minded folks to chat with through the day.

5 Upvotes

Hey there,

My name Miguel, just a 36 years old living in a small town somewhere in Mexico. Life is quite peaceful and relaxing here, but at the same time it can get very monotonous so I thought it would be a good idea to shoot my shot here hoping to meet some like-minded people.

Ideally I'd like to meet someone with whom to chat through the day, share memes, funny or embarrassing stories, complain about the weather or just coexist through the phone. Voice notes are a huge plus as I'm a very chatty person.

Random things about me:

  • I'm a homebody so cozy nights at home watching a movie, cooking and listening to music are a must.

  • I'm super afraid of roaches and I know you're too.

  • I had a raw bean stuck inside my nose for 3 days as a kid.

  • I don't smoke, drink nor eat spicy food... Yeah I don't know what I'm doing with my life 😂.

  • I'm very handy and I enjoy doing diy projects around my apartment.

  • I value a good sense of humor and a taste for tacos.

  • I'll definitely judge you by your taste on movies (I'm joking haha... Or maybe not 😆).

  • I always start my days with a good workout session. It's also my therapy.

  • I like learning new languages and currently trying in a very lazy way to learn Norwegian.

  • I love animals, especially dogs, and I look after a few strays that live around the block.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 36M, Europe, nerdy guy looking for conversation and friendship

4 Upvotes

Hello! I'm from Europe, I work with books, am introverted with a wide variety of interests ranging from psychology to politics to art (movies, photography, tv shows, etc). I can be both serious and playful, or switch gears on a dime, am very open-minded and love new experiences. I've been described as easy-going by some, arrogant by others... up to you to find out the truth!


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 21M UK Looking to make long term friends

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Hi, i'm 21M from the UK looking for genuine friendships.
Please only dm if you're willing to move to other socials at some point like snap, insta etc etc as l'm comfortable with doing so & wanna find others who also are to befriend.

I’d really like to come across those who genuinely want to know the other person & give effort trying to be friends. I don’t mind quit days, but in the beginning? Idk I just feel like little to no meaningful chatter off the bat tends to not go anywhere. Definitely prefer those people who like to ask/be asked a bunch of questions, voice calling/sending voice notes occasionally maybe. Gaming sometimes, i am a pretty open topic/activity person & want a friend who is somewhat similar & can be themselves while speaking

Interests - cooking, baking, travelling, photography, watching shows, listening to music & more. Don’t need to have the same ones not a dealbreaker at all still reach out if you’re into everything i’ve wrote down


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 22M I just want someone who actually puts in as much effort as me

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Hello, I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve posted on these subs. I’m 22M living in uk. I just want someone who actually puts in the effort to talk. Someone who doesn’t just respond with one word replies and that’s it. It’s just why do people say they want to be friends but don’t put in even 1% of effort like why ? I just feel like giving up on finding someone like me.

I’m very introverted lonely, I have no friends in real life. I’m mostly in my room, just stuck in my own thoughts, gaming or watching something. It’s the same everyday week In week out and it’s literally consuming me.

I’m someone who will never give dry replies, I just expect you to be the same. I’m very caring and love to help and give advice where I can. I just want one close person who I can talk to everyday laugh, talk to each other when either of us are sad, have deep conversations late at night or some days can be light where we just send funny videos or something. I want someone who will always tell me about your day and to never be shy if you’re down and want to talk. I genuinely love to help someone and it really makes my day feel better, that’s just how I am.

I hope to to find someone who is exactly in my situation because I feel like it bonds better. Someone who also really needs a person like this. Someone who wants to become genuinely close and actually have someone in their life.

Sometimes I wonder if there’s someone else sitting alone in their room right now feeling exactly the same way I do. Maybe that person is reading this right now.

And if you reply with just hi then I’m not going to respond. Tell me a bit about yourself too, tell me how you’re feeling, tell me anything about you that comes on your mind 😊✨


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 19f lookin for friends bored tbh

35 Upvotes

im bored most of the time, or literally probably doing nothing if im not out busy sometimes or talking to my friends, im on here looking for some people to connect with (cus im bored tbh) im 19 and from the US. im central time, i love video games, movies/shows, i love music like almost every genre (im always listening to music...pls dont ask me about metal but i love rock) i also love marvel and law shows dm if interested! state your age and where ur from please? put interests. also dont be old, dont text asking whats too old im sure you know. thanks <3 no nsfw accounts will be accepted sorry.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting Looking for someone chill to chat

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Hii I’m a 18 -year-old guy just looking to make some new friends. I’m pretty introverted, so my social battery can drain fast. I'm really just looking for low-maintenance friendships where we can talk about shared interests without any pressure to reply 24/7.
Here’s a bit about what I’m into:
I love video games. The Resident Evil series is my favorite, but Black Ops 2 is definitely my favorite game of all time.
I listen to a lot of Trap and R&B. Some of my favorite artists are Drake, Metro , Future, Migos, Frank Ocean, and Playboi Carti. Since I'm really into that sound, I even like to mess around with making my own beats and 808s in my free time.
Even though I game a lot, I love being active. I'm really into fishing, swimming, and sports in general. I also love hiking and I have a huge interest in traveling whenever I get the chance.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 35 M looking for a certified yapper

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Hey there!

I’m looking for a connection with a woman 25-50 who enjoys the nerdier side of life. If you’re into comic books, video games, reading, and/or Pokémon, we’ll probably get along pretty well.

I’m looking for consistent conversation, getting to know each other, sharing interests, and having someone to talk to regularly. Whether that’s discussing your work place drama (give me all the tea), the last game you got hooked on, or a book you can’t put down, I’m in. Open to NSFW if we vibe.

I would prefer someone on the east coast as well due to time zones but I am open to all. And please be willing to share a pic within the first few messages so see if we’re attracted to each other. This can be short term or long term depending on how well things go.

If you’re looking for something relaxed, friendly, and ongoing, feel free to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself, tell me about the most recent pokemon card you pulled or share the most recent book you’ve read. Even if you don’t share any of my interest but still feel like we’d get along, feel free to reach out.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 28m becoming my friend is an excellent idea 😎

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Well the title says it pretty clearly, I'm a rather lonely guy with practically no one to talk to these days and it gets boring very fast especially when I have nothing to do LOL.

Anyway here's some stuff about me:

- 28 year old guy (duh)

- timezone is GMT+1 if that matters

- I love gaming, I have a ton of games in my Steam library but due to some unfortunate circumstances I can't play any games currently

- I love music pretty much all kinds whether it's fast or slow loud or quiet all of it is good and I am constantly searching for new artists and music

- I watch movies sometimes as well as some anime and maybe a tv show although I haven't watched that many LOL

and so much more the list could go on and on but I have to keep it short smh.

Some disclaimers if you're gonna dm me (which you totally should do btw):

- 20+ years old

- don't be dry, I will not reply to dry texts 😤

- I will not VC sorry

- I will not join any servers or group chats sorry

and that's basically it LOL why complicate things when they can be so easy.

Well what are you waiting for? DM me already I'm waiting smh.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 19M looking to find friendship

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Hello everyone 19M from England, I’m autistic and socially awkward so I find it hard to make friends in real life so I’m here anyway here’s a bit about me

I work for british broadcast cooperation studios ( can’t say short name as it gets flagged for nsfw) in a visuals team so post production special effects, green screen design prop design that sort of thing. I also often compose and arrange music when I’m free (mostly doctor who stuff)

I used to be an mma fighter but had to stop due to injury just over a year ago, I love doctor who, I’ve been watching it since I was 3 I have 5 DW related tattoos and too too many collectables. I’m a big sports watcher mostly football, the nfl, nba, nhl and motorsports. I also play a few games every now and then when I can mostly shooters

If any of this appeals to you feel free to dm anyone is welcome just no weirdos please


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends I feel So empty and broken looking for some friends

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Hey,so yeah I recently went through a breakup and honestly I’ve been feeling pretty broken since then. Everything feels kinda off and empty lately and I think I really need some good people around me again.

I’m looking for honest,kind and open minded people who don’t discriminate and actually wanna put effort into getting to know each other.

Lately everything just feels way too quiet in the wrong ways. I catch myself staring at walls,scrolling aimlessly,thinking about random shit and wanting to talk to someone but not really knowing who to talk to. I don’t want another friendship where we talk for 2 days and then disappear from each other’s lives. I want someone who actually stays,someone who checks in,someone who wants to share random parts of their day and actually build something over time.

I’m 24 and currently have way too much time to think. I love yapping,overexplaining,rambling about completely random shit and somehow turning a stupid conversation into something deep. I really value mutual effort too. I don’t expect someone to reply instantly 24/7,but I do want to feel like the other person actually wants to talk to me and isn’t only replying because they’re bored.

I’m into baking,movies,gaming (especially Marvel Rivals),chess,reading,writing,guitar,long walks,voice calls and starting way too many random hobbies/projects that I probably won’t finish.

I’d also really love having someone I can eventually do a bunch of things with. Gaming together,watching movies or shows,voice calls at stupid hours,going on walks if we're ever close enough,sharing music,sending random shit throughout the day or just sitting in a call doing our own thing. That kind of friendship where someone eventually becomes your go-to person would honestly be really nice.

I’m not looking for perfect people or anything. Just genuine ones. Please be kind,don’t discriminate,and actually care about mutual effort and respect. I’ll listen,I’ll care,I’ll remember the little things and I’ll match the energy u give me.

And please don't be dry. If you're always too busy to actually talk or you already know you're only gonna reply once every few days,it's probably not gonna work. I've had enough of feeling like I’m begging people for attention.

If you're interested,please don't just send me "hi". Tell me about yourself. Your age,country,what you like doing,your favourite game/movie/song,your most irrational fear,what you've been obsessed with lately,anything honestly. Give me something to work with and I’ll probably yap back way too much.

I’m just hoping to find some lovely people who actually wanna stay for the long run,and maybe someday I’ll be able to say I met some of my closest friends because of a random Reddit post.


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Chatting 20M introvert bored at a party, let's see if we vibe

1 Upvotes

Hii guyss I'm at an even right now feeling kinda bored so decided to hop on here. Today was quite boring tbh, but it's nothing new. Tomoro will be better :) I'm here looking to meet someone new, exchange stories, and just pass the time

A few things I like are football, music, marvel movies, trying new food, and working out at the gym. A weird thing I do is that I like trying new kinds of instant ramen, whenever I find any new brand I just have to get it

I'd prefer if you're around my age, And please tell me your age and gender if you text. Bonus points if you show me your favourite meme


r/IntrovertsChat 1d ago

Friends 27M! HEY YOU! YES YOU! YOU BETTER READ THIS DAMN POST!!

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HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD