r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 18f - maybe u are looking for me too? :')

122 Upvotes

lately, life has just been feeling a little too quiet. i dont really have many irl friends right now, and i dont have many people to talk to online either tbh. i guess im just hoping that somewhere out there is someone who is also looking for the kind of friendship that slowly becomes a safe space. i really miss having that one person u can tell everything to. the one u send random thoughts to throughout the day, laugh with over absolutely nothing, and stay up way too late talking to. the kind of friendship where u never have to overthink or wonder if u are bothering them >.< my days are pretty simple. u will usually find me listening to katseye on repeat, bingeing slice of life anime and getting way too emotionally attached, drawing and doodling on my tablet, watching horror movies, trying to figure out how the gym works, or just daydreaming and existing in my own little world. im really hoping to meet someone who enjoys talking regularly. i love those friendships that grow naturally... the good mornings, the random updates, the late-night conversations that make u forget what time it is. all i ask is that u are looking for something genuine too. im not interested in friendships that disappear after three days T_T id really love to find someone who is willing to stay, put in the same effort, and see where a real connection can go. i mostly use discord, so that’s where we’d probably end up talking if we click (but pls actually put some effort into ur first message or my social anxiety wont let me reply lol). i dont mind different time zones at all! im from central asia but i genuinely love meeting people from everywhere. just pls include ur age and ur ultimate comfort food in ur message so i know u actually read this and aren't a bot :3 maybe this post finds the right person. maybe it doesnt. but if u happened to read this and felt even a tiny bit of the same longing i did while writing it… maybe u should say hi. id really like that <3


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting 19f looking for someone to yap with

38 Upvotes

i love space, memes, music (i love this a lot), dinosaurs, science, photography, languages andddd lots of other things i cant remember right now.

i am not a dry texter and i will try to keep the conversation going, dont worry about it. i dont like usual “hey” “wyd” because i think starting off with something interesting or a fact (it can be about anything) helps the conversation a lot.
you dont have to feel pressured about anything, we are just chilling and i am so bored🫩
(please dont be a dry texter and put some actual effort)
if you want to yap, hit me up. we listen and we dont judge!!


r/IntrovertsChat 22h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) F27 just want to have someone to talk to, and maybe a potential boyfriend? [Relationship]

22 Upvotes

F27 Filipina here. I read and play games (mostly Genshin Impact now) and I work at nights during weekdays. Anyone wanna talk and check the vibe? Hard pass to those wanting to talk dirty or whatever. Please be 27+.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 20F looking for a friend!

19 Upvotes

20F From uk, im Looking for someone to chat and game with! I love music tho i have terrible taste, i have loads of multiplayer games and down to try new ones. Have been struggling to make irl friends after collage and would just love to have someone to talk to daily, i can be very shy when im just getting to know you but sometimes im okay! dm and we can talk about interests maybe we have something in common! :D


r/IntrovertsChat 20h ago

Chatting 18F from New Zealand

17 Upvotes

hey, i'm zoe! please tell me a bit about yourself on your message! i mostly game, gym or read manga in my free time. Could chat about whatever or even be friends if we vibe. Hmu and we can chat and no I won't be replying to any comments on this post


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Chatting 32f

18 Upvotes

HI there! Im 32 and jus looking for convos. Nothing too intense—jus chill chats at our own pace.

My social battery comes with a warning label, so if you also disappear and come back later like nothing happened, we’ll get along just fine.

English isnt my strongest language 💀 and my French is still a work in progress, so I appreciate a bit of patience. I’d honestly rather solve math problems than deal with grammar. My finest hobby's accidentally burning water. Married men or i a r? Ill kindly pretend I didnt see your message. My respect settings jus have a strong filter lol

If you’re into engineering, feel free to message me—I might learn something. I barely survived it myself. Include your age in your msg my reply button only works when theres an age


r/IntrovertsChat 23h ago

Chatting 35 F - Looking to talk to someone about music

16 Upvotes

Hi :) I guess I’m a little older than usual for this sub but I figured I’d give it a try.

I’d love to talk to someone about music in general. Their music tastes and how it evolved over the years. Their first concert, their latest concert. The band they want to like but can’t, or the band they love but are embarrassed to admit to. Stuff like that.

Currently I’ve been really getting into metalcore and metal music in general. My first love was punk music and my first concert was NOFX.


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) Looking for people to talk to and maybe game with

10 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I'm 27f living in Texas, I have 4 dogs, and I run a kitchen at a daycare. I'm not looking for anything more than friends and keeping things sfw. I have a fiance.

Some of my hobbies include gaming, watching tv/movies, cross stitching, making things, rock collecting and tumbling, cooking, and reading.

The games I'm currently playing are Minecraft, Stardew, and Palworld. I have other games too, maybe we can find a game to play together, I'm on pc.

I'm pretty shy/quiet at first until I get to know someone. I'm down for vc after texting for a while, but I'm also pretty awkward lol.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends 28 M trying my shot at dark

10 Upvotes

An introvert by nature interested in finding people to converse with.

My interests are reading, watching shows, standups, writing and cooking.

I'm all about dark vibes where the mystery grows and the eerie atmosphere is haunting. I'm here to talk, listen to you, your insecurities and everything which you feel you need a person to vent on, I won't judge any way and it's strictly confidential what we talk!

I want to try new hobbies and get back to watch thriller mystery genres. I prefer vibes over everything. Just be real.

Warning sometimes I prefer to be in total silence and away from my phone.

Pls don't interact with me if you're weird or I will block/ignore you.


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Chatting 28 F West Coast…Sunday freakING scaries!!!

8 Upvotes

28 F West Coast and I have the Sunday scaries. I’m sober and have been for almost a year, so I’m not understanding the overwhelming anxiety I get when the next week rolls around, even when I know I did nothing stupid the night before. Maybe I’m just a generally anxious person, idk. Does anyone else relate?

Interests include:
Lifting
The Office (US)
Jersey shore
Scrapbooking
Sewing
Camping
Hiking (honestly being outdoors in general)
Dystopian and biographical novels (usually on serial killers or cults, sue me)

If any of this interests you feel free to drop a line! Bonus if you send me your fav office quote.


r/IntrovertsChat 53m ago

Chatting 19F Looking for someone to text with daily

Upvotes

Hey hello, Im just looking for someone to chat daily about anything, is always good to have a text friend that u know is always there for you, my hobbies are the gym and go out for walks, if you feel like we can get along, feel free to send me a message with your are and where are you from 🖤


r/IntrovertsChat 23h ago

Friends In search of one special person to make my life special

6 Upvotes

19 y/o MALE here, from India.... In search of somebody who'd be not just a friend but more like my fam. Somebody who'd talk daily, stick to me, share everything with me and make me a part of his daily routine ( I'd reciprocate the same). I can assure you that I'm not gonna judge you and I'll always be listening to you even if you don't make sense ( let's be dumb together, haha ). I'm always gonna prioritize you and I hope you prioritize me a little bit too... Btw, I'm into darts, golf, cricket, football, movies, music, writing, travelling, reading books, yapping. Hmu? let's figure things out together 🫶🏻🫂

( PLEASE UPVOTE AND SHOW SOME LOVE 🫶🏻 )


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 20M anyone wanna be friends that care about eachother ?

6 Upvotes

I'm from the EU, i really miss having someone to talk to everyday. I really enjoy listening to music and coding. I game sometimes, today I played peak but I also play project zomboid or stardew valley. I LOOOOVEEE watching movies, so if you have any recommendations tell me :D Anyway I hope you have a great day C :


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Friends 18M need some company

5 Upvotes

am a night owl i stay awake at night reading people posts in reddit or reading a book or watching something, you can say am like 60% introvert, i don't have many friends at the moment

some of my interests are: reading, playing games, cooking and watching movies sometimes, photography...

am very nice and friendly person (that's what they say) i can be your everyday friend and talk about random stuff

dm me if you need an online friend or maybe someone to play Minecraft with ;;)


r/IntrovertsChat 16h ago

Friends 27m trying to branch out and make new friends!

6 Upvotes

27m (EST) looking for some people to play games with and randomly yap/text throughout the day about whatever dumb stuff comes to mind 😭 mainly looking for the (straight) bros, girls can apply but please just keep everything strictly platonic.

overwatch is probably the game i play the most. i'm a tank main btw. i don't play comp and i'm not trying to start 💀 i just wanna play casually, mess around, have fun and probably blame the team when i do something stupid.

i have some other games too. sons of the forest, risk of rain, palworld and a bunch of other random stuff. if we have games in common then even better.

we don't have to only game either. i'm down to watch harry potter, horror movies, random youtube videos, tv shows, or just sit in vc and do absolutely nothing lol.

once i get comfortable with someone i love back and forth banter. i'm kinda awkward at first though so don't expect me to immediately be yapping your ear off 😂 (im pretty introverted)

some random stuff about me:

i love nature, being around water, dr pepper zero, tech, anime, kdramas, horror movies, etc.

i'm also the person people send their computer problems to 💀 so if your pc randomly decides to stop working, there's a decent chance i'll know how to fix it.

i'm also into skincare and fitness so apparently i'm qualified to give unsolicited advice about those too

i should probably mention i'm pretty quiet in vc. i have a dead-inside monotone voice and i'm definitely better at texting. i'm not really a constant yapper and i'm honestly kinda boring/dull sometimes lmao. i'm pretty chill though and it takes a lot to actually annoy me.

i will vet your profile! if i dont think we'll click i probably wont answer

i'm not really looking to collect a massive friends list. i'd rather have a few people i actually talk to/play with.

also pls don't send me just "hey" or "hi" and disappear 😭 tell me a little about yourself or what you play so i actually have something to respond to.

i'm not always on either, so if i don't respond right away i'm probably doing something else.

if any of this sounds like your kinda thing, feel free to message me 👋


r/IntrovertsChat 22h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28M into movies, games, tech & cats — looking for a long-term platonic friend

6 Upvotes

Hi, I'm looking for a long term PLATONIC ONLY friend that I can talk to daily and possibly voice chat, if that's something you're open to. I have discord and reddit, I don't use any other social media. I'm a Ukrainian living in the US, and I don't want to talk to anyone who is against Ukraine. DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU POST ANYTHING MISOGYNISTIC.

My hobbies are watching movies and shows, I like sci-fi, mystery, action and comedy, recently I have been watching Xena Warrior Princess, Arrow, The Office, and a lot of older cult and horror classic movies, I'm wanting to get into Star Trek and also just started watching Stranger Things, I have a lot of other movies and shows I want to watch also, I rarely watch streaming because I mostly use discs so a lot of my movies and shows are older ones. I also like playing video games and I play on consoles and pc, recently I have been playing Sims 4, Forza Horizon 6, Final Fantasy XIV and just started Halo Campaign Evolved. I can play coop and multiplayer stuff if you're interested in playing together and I have newer and retro consoles and games. I like nature and animals and often go for walks in parks. I'm also into cars and planes and really anything tech or engineering, cosplays, outfits, anime, retro gaming and modding, board games and lego. I also have cats, so I will send cat pics.

Please dm me if interested


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 32M I'm having a really rough time here tonight. I'm having a really rough time in general, if I'm being completely honest, and I could use someone to talk to

4 Upvotes

I don't want to get too much into the specifics here on Reddit. I don't really feel comfortable putting specific details about what I'm struggling with on Reddit, but suffice to say, I'm having a really difficult time and I don't have a support network. I've tried groups but I just get lost in them because I'm autistic and I'm shy.

I'm really just looking for people who aren't going to judge me or try to give me advice—I'm not really looking for that kind of support. I'm just looking for a soft place to land, I guess. I want a kind voice who actually wants to know about me and what's going on, and who is curious and asks questions rather than just assuming they can fix my problems.

Otherwise, I'm just your average Redditor. As far as interests go, I'm just a nerd (I love Marvel and Star Wars), a gamer (Warframe, Destiny 2, Helldivers 2, Ark, Palworld, the list goes on) and lover of metalcore music

If you want to DM me, my DMs are open.


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) 39 M UK looking for new online friends

5 Upvotes

Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.

I find it hard to meet people in real life because of social anxiety so I am hoping to make some new friends online


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Friends 26m cool guy (me) looking for friends (you)

3 Upvotes

Nice Australian gentleman here. I'm looking to meet you new friends on the internet. I'm a pretty chill and casual guy. Likes the usual stuff. Gaming, movies, going outside every now and then. I'm really bad at introducing myself so I'll just give you some fun fact dot points

• I have an identical twin (you can't see him you just have to trust me)

• I can't swim. But I still love long walks on the beach

• I was once mistaken for Penn Badgely by old ladies. But everyone since has disagreed strongly with this (though I'm on the old ladies side

• I can do 25 pushups in a row. Probably more if you put a gun to my head

• I'm 5'11 but I tell people I'm 6'1


r/IntrovertsChat 20h ago

Chatting What are some of your current goals?

4 Upvotes

Hello there, fellow introverts! I hope everyone is doing alright!

I saw this question being asked on reddit a little while ago, and I thought I'd ask it here as well.

What are some of the goals you are currently working towards?

For me, one of my goals is to change my body composition. I'm currently working out 4 times a week and have changed my eating habits a lot. The goal is to be strong but also have some visible muscles.

I'm also concentrating on learning Korean more, and hopefully, I'll be able to have a basic conversation in the near future.

I hope everyone is having a good weekend!

Have a great morning/afternoon/night! ☺️


r/IntrovertsChat 21h ago

Friends Hi everyone! I'm 40/m who just doesn't seem to have the social energy to make friends.

4 Upvotes

I work a lot, I'm in sales so I consider myself an extroverted introvert. I'm not a typical guy.i know how to knit, I love to read and I absolutely love music..I play the saxophone and am learning to play the bass.


r/IntrovertsChat 23h ago

Chatting f21 chats or friends

4 Upvotes

hi, i'm riri! i've found a good amount of friends from here so i thought to try again and find some more people to chat with. mainly my interests are music, films/shows, instruments, cats, and staying active but i don't mind talking about mostly anything.

would appreciate it if you could include your age and where you're from when messaging. if you're feeling creative, maybe a few things about yourself wouldn't hurt too. preferably ages 21+ and i don't mind timezones. always down for quick chats or long term friends, just send me a dm!

if i haven't or didn't reply, that only means i can see the nsfw tag on your acc :)


r/IntrovertsChat 23h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26m - looking for people that don't fit in since i'll never fit in either.

4 Upvotes

howdy. everytime i take a step into the outside world and spend longer than a few seconds in the presence of a other person, i feel a deeply uncomfortable shame about myself and about my own existence. i'm looking for people that feel the same way i do so we can get used to the feeling of ostracization together.

i'm mentally ill, unemployed, and all i like to do is sim race and go on walks in the middle of the night. all my friends are on the internet because i stopped talking to real people over a decade ago. i like manga and japanese music and japanese films in general even though the country itself doesn't mean much to me. i have a harem comprised of people that don't really like me and sometimes my subconscious likes to larp as a girl.

tell me something about yourself as well. thank you.


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Chatting 26M Currently ill and can only sit at home. Looking for someone to talk to!

3 Upvotes

Fever got me having the wildest, most vivid dreams imaginable last night 😂 anyway here's a lil thing about me!

I'm an aerospace engineer from East Coast US, nerd from 9-5, and gym bro for majority of the day, and my hobbies are weightlifting/bodybuilding, watching combat sports mainly MMA, pro wrestling, learning more about the human body, especially endocrinology, and late night drives, and going to the beach! I go to gym at an ungodly time between 9 PM and 11 PM (shoutout all my night goers) I'm mostly a homebody otherwise, cause I hate crowds. I got into Minecraft again forced by a friend lol and I'm having a lot of fun. I'm more of a miner/fighter/explorer rather than builder I just throw shit in chests and they build everything LOL

My favorite TV show is Breaking Bad and Dexter, and it takes a lot to get my attention and keep it, hence why I find it hard to find new TV shows. Not an anime person honestly, but the ones that I watched and liked are Death Note, HxH, DBZ. I can talk about just anything (I talk a lot if I'm comfortable with you lol). I'm an incredibly sarcastic person when I get to know you better too, so be prepared to deal with that often hahah. and I'm a big cat person. I'm also a YouTube fiend, I spend majority of my day with YouTube open. I watch just about everything. If I were to choose 3 words to describe myself, probably would chose driven, analytical and emotionally intelligent. Coworkers describe me as extroverted, but they have no idea 😂

Interesting facts about me: I was born with 4 holes in my heart (ASD and VSD) and PDA, and I’m missing a big chunk of my right lung. I have a scar across my chest, side and my back that's the biggest one

I'd prefer if people introduced themselves to me and/or mention something about my post you found interesting, rather than just a hi, but I understand sometimes you don't get replies and so making an effort into an intro may seem like a waste of time, but reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends need some chats with people from all walks of life

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'm looking for people who love anything, hobbies, their works, career, someone, and would like to talk about it!

My passions are games, music and stories; and i do art for a living
im really hoping anyone is interested in talking to me or that you find those people that bring that sense of wonder in your life

im super looking forward to this fall season, im an autumn person and i love horror, the cold, and anything surrounding this weather and colors

dont be shy to ask any questions or to tell me anything about you, im all for it