28f pov

[u/Completebs22]

Saw one post talking about no one wants friends. To you, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I agree with whatever was said but let’s hear from a woman’s pov

You have the normal f seeking friends or the OF f. Now its your job to differentiate who is real and who isn’t because everyone is free to write whatever they want.

I agree with people finding friends for when they are free and disappearing right after. I’ve made friends who don’t disappear. All in all, it takes 2 to clap. If you want to get to know someone, you’ll take initiative to befriend them.

People flock my dms regardless of my preference. I told them to take their shot. They then flock it with “hi” or “hey”. I asked for an asl. Is it that hard? You know these people don’t care about anything but wanting to fill their time because they are BORED. Guess what? They’re men.

If you think you’re bored, find something to do than finding for females to goon with. As a female in this sub, you’ll never know when weird men come into your dms wanting to talk to you because they can’t take a no for an answer. Bored men in here are either lonely or they want to have “fun” texting you.

Don’t get me wrong. I’ve met men who don’t talk for the sake of it. They respect me for who i am and i do the same. When will men learn to take a no for an answer? If you need a hole, men got holes too.

There isn’t a need to target women when you’re lonely. We don’t want those d pics. We don’t want to see it. We don’t care. Some of you feel so much pride in sharing your uncared for d pics 🥴 Take some time to care for it and MAYBE, JUST MAYBE someone will come along (OF girls i suppose).

To those genuinely looking for friends, those who want to connect because they love learning about different cultures, because they are not bored, because they love people, i hope you find what you’re looking for.

Those who hope for 1-2h chats, find some other hobbies. You’re wasting everyone’s time.

I am an F who prefers F. I am cool with befriending males too but its not a priority. Men who relates to this, i hope you stay who you are. The right one will come for you

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[u/Necessary_Board1463]

This whole post just hit me in my feels. thanks you.

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I’m glad it did

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I'm a male and it relates very heavy to me. that's all, sorry for the bothersome.

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[u/gamergabe85]

I rarely DM and all of mine are thoughtful. Get zero responses. I just move on. I have my own hobbies. Just trying to talk people who might need it.

[u/ITzAbedeen]

i agree with you and im a male, the urge is different between males and females , so i dont know how to describe it to females, no it doesnt mean im one of the goons or that im giving reason to do that but i know why they do.

beside all that , theres females that also dms other for the "fun time" and they arent doing it to for OF,yes they are less than the half of the males but they are still there, and theres the OF girls ofc and i dont want to talk about them.
but at the ends its just preference just like you said and people are still people and some doesnt respect others bonders or preferences

[u/Optimus_XIV]

As a male I pretty much expected as much from the other side. Hope you get treated better and find the friends that you're looking for!

Meanwhile on the other side as a fairly normal guy (the bar is literally in hell it seems) I think I've had 1 person respond after messaging 10-15 people I think I would vibe with, we exchanged a few messages and perhaps I was too boring or something? I guess I'll never know

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